Yesterday evening from enrolling for classes at my local community college which is 30 miles from where I live I returned back to where I live which is my fathers house. He was in bed I perceeded to fix me something to eat the kitchen where I was is right next to his bedroom. I began to cook the food trying to be respectful but I was using a deepfryer which make a little bit of nosie which I thought it would not bother him because he is a hard sleeper. Well he got up from his bed came in the kitchen yelling at me calling me a motherfu**er and saying he is fu**king tired of me eating up all his food. He said he was going to take what I was eating to work with him I then said that there is still alot more left it would be enough for you to cook and take to work with you that is when he picked up a coffee mug and threw it at me striking me in the back of the head I than went to the police sation and they went to his house and arrested him he kicked me out I have no place to go help!
2006-08-05 05:27:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Your father has a anger problem but that is his problem.You need to go to a homeless shelter until you get a job and support you self. Even going to school requires you to work part time to support your self.
2006-08-05 05:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by BUTCH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming you lived there rent free, and your dad is aggravated. After all you did back talk him and basically told him too cook his own food instead of saying sure dad take this to work I can fix me something else. You going to the police is what brought your dad over the edge. When you are living with a parent rent free and being of college age you kinda made your own bed there. The only thing I can suggest is go and apologize to your dad, after all it was just a coffee mug, tell him your sorry ask him if you can move back in and offer to pay rent, after all you are old enough to help support yourself. And don't take your dad for granted, what is wrong with preparing him a meal to take to work. Start doing that giving him respect his attitude might change. Kid's think their parents owe them, and they should be able to live at home rent Free for the rest of their college days but that is just not the case. Sorry but the truth hurts sometimes and I am not trying to be rude here.
2006-08-05 05:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by sisinlovewithyou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Matthew,
Try to remain calm and seek help from family members, friends, if you're religious, your local clergyman. If you can't find any help, contact the housing department at the college and ask them for housing assistance. Some colleges will give you temporary housing until the paperwork is processed. Most of all, don't give up on college, it is so important to get your degree. Last but not least, Get some counseling for the issues with your father. It will help to talk to somebody. Hang in there man, stay positive!!
2006-08-05 05:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by Ben 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?? Are you over 18? If you are under 18 you should contact department of children and families they can find a shelter for you and place you with a foster family. Are there any grandparents, relatives or good family friends? If you are over 18 perhaps you can stay with a friend or worst case a homeless shelter.
2006-08-05 05:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by nonameforme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your grandparents or other family members. go to the college and see if they can help you with student housing. that helped me when I was moving out. Your dad has anger issues and you don't need that kind of abuse.
2006-08-05 05:50:34 · answer #5 · answered by Adam B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋