Ladies, my woman doesn't turn me on. She doesn't try to be sexy. I do love her. But she acts so scared or shy. I tell her what I like and she just acts shy. And for a man you don't have to be the perfect porn star, but I want her to try to act like the porn star maybe once or twice or three time a week, (maybe four times) I am getting off track, I'm back. But for men it is more just seeing it, then the feeling it. And I don't want to cheat, but I am not be full filled by her sex.
2006-08-05 05:17:08 · 10 answers · asked by prsmtty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women open up to sexuality when they're comfortable. The more you push her the harder it will be for her to open up to you sexually. Women like to be pulled, not pushed.Do all those romantic things that she hints at and suggest to her that it would turn you on if she acted just a litlte more slutty.
2006-08-05 05:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't cheat on her. That's wrong. Just let her go and find somebody who can appreciate her for who she is. You say you love her but yet you can't accept the way she is. If you really loved her, she wouldn't have to do anything special or act like somebody she's not just to turn you on. Most men would just be glad that they're getting some so maybe you're the one that needs help, not her....
2006-08-05 12:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im a man here but ill tell you this. TALK TO HER. Be a bit more tactiful but maybe suggest roleplay or ask her her fantasies. But don't say you don't turn me on. Listen to her comments as well.. Nothing more wonderful then being able to talk openly with a women about your sexual needs.. Give her the chance to prove herself to you. If she knows you respect her enough to talk with her. And the fact that theres a chance she could lose you things could change. If she is shy it may take her some time be patient if you feel she is worth it.
2006-08-05 12:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love her find a way to talk to her to express the importance of this to you or you will cheat and you know that you are right for men it is visual if she refuses to try to do a few things then maybe it is time to reassess your relationship-break up before you cheat it will be better for everyone-do not try to stay and cheat that will hurt every one
2006-08-05 12:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by pycosal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok........now it's up to you! Go out and buy her something you would like to see her in! When you get back with it, tell her to put on some make-up and look sexy for you.
And you are right.......visualization is a very important step in getting in the mood, if you need more help have her email me! I'll talk her through!
2006-08-05 12:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she seems scared or shy, then she is not at ease with you. Even if she trys, feeling that way, it will be unnatural and won't be what you are looking for anyway.
With a kind heart please her, as SHE wishes, not necessarily as you think and she will want to please you.
... points to Wolf who said it first... I admit to that being a bit of a suprise answer... and I rarely come back to edit what I say
2006-08-05 13:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by Mikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her and tell her how you feel. You all need to compromise and come to an agreement. If she doesn't agree on what you two came up with together, she's gotta go.
2006-08-05 12:21:58 · answer #7 · answered by hnic_shannon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay ask her clear & try to explain ur feeling
all the best
& then do sex as u want.
2006-08-05 12:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by shorewalas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try with the woman who cooperates.
2006-08-05 12:21:34 · answer #9 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
re-charge her power.use your abilities man
2006-08-05 12:21:39 · answer #10 · answered by sigmastar _62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋