me and my girlfiend have finally decided to have sex, but now shes having second thouts saying were to young.but im 14 and shes 13
2006-08-05 05:10:27 · 14 answers · asked by nick69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You never get a second chance at it being your first time. Weigh thr pros and cons..
Pros.....You have sex...trust me it doesnt get good until your WAY older.
You get to be after all the loser a girl has to sleep with before she realizes she should have waited to 17- 18 years old. And she will appreciate you SO much more.
You have NO worries or being a "babies Daddy " at 15 years old.
You have no worries of catching a STD that you have forever! Because you didnt have $$ to get condoms or didnt know what a STD was.
Cons...Yes you may have to deal with "your still a virgin??" but it may be hard to hear them over the screaming baby they had at 14.
You may loose friends because you chose to wait....but as your going to prom, college or simply sitting at home playing a video game - they may be wondering -"how am i going to pay for baby food and new uniform for my McDonalds job?" or " does the free clinic open to pick up my STD meds before my job at Burger King?"
Your 14!! TV and society put soo much pressure on having sex and how good it is- the truth is ....sex is only good when your truly ready for it.
You cant ...pick her up for a date yet in your own car....you cant take her back to your house to make her dinner...you cant buy her gifts ....you cant porve your worthy of her as a man yet!! Enjoy being a TEENAGER- trust me. You have 20- 50 years to be an adult..only 6 years to be a teenager.
2006-08-05 05:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by KA 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
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2016-09-28 22:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well may b yo girlfriend is rite. I mean yall probably really care about each other but yall r too young u're 14 n she's 13 why can't u jus wait until da best time yall may seen or heard wat sex is about but its more 2 it den u think. yea u gon have sex den after words u gon have 2 deal with da consquences n all da other stuff u guys r young n u still have time 2 do all dat but jus not now. may b yo girl is really now startin 2 think about how hard it gon b after sex da things she gon have 2 worry about n deal with.
sex isn't something u jus jump into n say oh I,m ready it takes time n sex may b fun but its more like a responsibility u have to take care of yo self n b 200% ready n prepared u don't have 2 rush it cuz yall r still young yall could b doin other things n thinkin about other fun stuff not sex ok jus give dat some time.
2006-08-05 05:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by chicagodiva08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are WAY WAY WAY WAY WAY WAY WAY WAY WAY WAY to young. What if she ends up pregnant, do you want to be a father at the age of 14?!?! Listen to your girlfriend's second thoughts, it affects her body more than yours.
What happened to people waiting till they were maried? You are both KIDS!!
2006-08-05 05:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are to young think about the consequences such as STDs, her getting pregnant. I can see why your girlfriend is having second thoughts it is stressful.
2006-08-05 05:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetgirl08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yall r too young!!! wait till she is 15 or 16! she is not mentally ready for anything like that!
2006-08-05 05:15:31 · answer #6 · answered by jessica s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young. Do you want to be a teenage parent?
2006-08-05 05:15:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's grass on the field, play ball.
2006-08-05 05:15:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are to young she is right but still you have to listen to her because she is giving it up to you so don't push it
2006-08-05 05:15:15 · answer #9 · answered by the ONE and ONLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read the guidelines-exploitation of minors
2006-08-05 05:14:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋