Hi, if a girl is 26 and a guy is 41 and they have been seeing eachother casually, and the 41 says to the 26 one night that he has had a crush on her for 10 years, is that wierd?
2006-08-05 05:02:19 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's cool he didn't perve on her when she was a kid and waited until she was an adult to tell her how he felt.
2006-08-05 05:15:02 · answer #1 · answered by Just call me sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wierd? No. A lot of people have crushes on younger people. A crush is TOTALY different than acting on your impulses. If the 26 year old was creeped out, they should speak up and say something. Keeping quiet about your true feelings in any relationship is not very healthy.
2006-08-05 05:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by outlandsishlady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a little weird. If he has had a crush on her for ten years, that would put him at 31 and her at 16. For me, that is too much, but as adults now, if both parties are comfortable with a 15 year age difference, then it is less weird.
2006-08-05 05:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by DIRT MCGIRT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 31 year old having a crush on a 16 year old? Yea, that's wierd and maybe just a little bit illegal.
2006-08-05 05:06:53 · answer #4 · answered by cognitively_dislocated 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it not mutual then yes its weird. but if the 26 year old feels the same then nope its not weird at all. unles they are related.... then its really weird. age is nothing more than a number....as long as ur legal. i'm just curious about how a 31 year old hung out with a 16 year old. u must be very mature!
2006-08-05 05:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by chahi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, a crush is different than acting on it , exeryone has crushes, an if your both happy what does your age differance have to do with your relationship their just numbers
2006-08-05 05:15:07 · answer #6 · answered by TJR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very very weird. You two have a fifteen year age difference.
2006-08-05 05:09:26 · answer #7 · answered by frankiegirl1122 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UH. YA.
2006-08-05 05:09:59 · answer #8 · answered by lolababy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋