This might be a bit childish but I believe quarrels do occur when living with parents. I'm still feeling bad and embarrased about it, please help. I'm 25, and my parents are still living with me.
2006-08-05 04:55:02 · 21 answers · asked by Springboard 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your parents are living with you or YOU are living with THEM?
2006-08-05 04:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that I can say, it that No matter what the quarrel was about, or who started it, go give your mom a big hug, and tell her that you are sorry, and that you love her. You never know how short someones life will be, and you don't want to have something bad happen and then you never get the chance to make up, say that I love you,or to even say goodbye. Trust me, it is not a good feeling to know that you never got that chance. I'm not Saying that you should never quarrel, just don't do it over stupid things that don't mean anything. I know that in life there are circumstances where you have to live with someone for a short time, try to make the best of things. And remember, make sure to say that you are sorry, and that you love her.
2006-08-05 12:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your parents are living with you that can put a strain on your emotions and relationships. Every person esp. at age 18 and over need their own space. You may have a guy friend you wanna bring over and your parents are constantly in the way and telling you how to do things. And arguments are good because you tell each other how you feel. You need to go back and talk to your mom there just has to be some boundaries between you guys. And try not to raise your voices at each other, sit and have someone mediate you two, in case it starts to get a little out of control.
2006-08-05 12:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by hnic_shannon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I had a fights with my mom like everyday! There were days when we didn't fight but not often. Don't sweat it she will always love you no matter what, she might say awful things but deep down she is just wanting the best for you even though she might not understand that you have ur own life and you need to learn from your own mistakes.
Fights with parents are completely normal, I love my mom but we just can not live together!! I'm only 17 and I have my own place becuase I realized that dealing with it any longer would make me go nutz and might lead to saying something REALLY awful!! U'll feel bad but I bet she feels bad too. Fights are a normal human thing. I suggest you find your own place! Just tell her ur sorry, it will make u feel better. Also explain that you are 25 now and you need your own space.
Good luck.
2006-08-05 12:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by hunniebun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take some advice, go and appollogise to your parents , even if it was not your fault, there are two reasons for this action. 1 it will you feel better, you have the moral high ground.
2it will make your parents feel better knowing that you are mature enough to make the first steps in rebuilding the relationship, you already know that the petty squabbles are all that they are , petty squablles, you seem a sensible person, and you care enough about what your parents think of you, making the first move to end a dispute is not weakness its strengh, rise above your human inclination to fight back and score points.
my bet would be that they will also say they .are sorry for the upset that the disagreement came to this end. good luck LF
2006-08-05 12:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by lefang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to argue with your parents, don't feel embarrassed, it's a part of life. I can understand why you feel bad though. Once you and your mom both calm down a bit, talk to her and fix the problem. I used to have a lot of problems with my parents when I lived with them. We would fight almost everyday over little things. Now I'm married, and I see them about once a week so I have nothing to fight about anymore. I never had any REALLY bad fights with my mom. My dad on the other hand, I would hate getting into fights with him. He once dropped me off to school and I yelled at him while slamming the door on him so that was pretty bad. I felt horrible the whole day at school. He was the one who picked me up too, so I apologized when we went back home after school, and parents' can't stay mad at their kids for too long, I find. I hope you fix everythign with your mom, Bless u.
2006-08-05 12:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a worst argument with my parents just mild ones. Like it is said in the Bible honor thy father and thy mother.
No mater I think how wrong they are, they are still my parents and I have a lot of respect for them. Just keep your cool and do the right thing and it will go away. dont feel bad and embarrased. things like that happens and you are not the only one.
2006-08-05 12:03:56 · answer #7 · answered by justsomeone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't you take the first move and appologise this may be what you mom wants to hear, also try and talk to her as to why she is still living with you if it is your house then it is understandable that you want privacy and have to have rules that she sticks by, but at the end of the day she is your mom, go now and put your arms around her hug her and gently say your sorry even if you think that it was her to blame for the argument..go on now..good luck ............... Scottish mother of 4 and soon to be a grandmother at 40 years old xxx
2006-08-05 14:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geneva Darling!
Don't worry quarrel with parents happen all the time.This is not your worse.Soon another will show up, life is like this. To stop u from feeling bad just go to your mother ask sincerely ask her that he forgives you. If you'll do it you won't feel bad. OK?
Wish you all the best!:D
2006-08-05 12:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by Jean-Michel de G. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it happens to everyone. I had issues with my parents at times, but now they are both gone and I wish I had just tried harder to understand where THEY were coming from.
One day, your parents will pass away. Love them as much as you can while they are still here, and even if you feel you were right, tell them you are sorry about the argument.
2006-08-05 12:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by opjames 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fell up the stairs drunk as a skunk and when I woke my mom doing this she asked is that you love, I said no Micky Mouse who do you think it is dipstick, she got out of bed gave me the hiding of my life and we argued about it for months on end, I shouldn't have been so rude and bad mannered and she shouldn't have hit me, but you get over it if you can both agree to disagree or just say plain old sorry.
2006-08-05 11:59:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋