ok, so my boyfriend of 2 years broke up w/ me about 3 months ago & I am still upset about it. Some days I hate him & other days I miss him & want him back. When he broke up w/ me he said @ first it was because I was possessive and then he told me he just wanted to be single for awhile. Well two weeks later he starts dating a girl who is 15 (he is 17) & she lives 3 hours away. And they only had met once before they started dating. I don't know what to do anymore. Ive been depressed for awhile & it feels like I will never get over it. Then school is going to start in like 2 weeks and Im really scared to see him because I haven't seen him all summer and I loved it but Im afraid when I see him @ school Im going to get upset and the progress I had made will be gone. Do you think that his relationship is just a rebound? And he will ever call me again to apologize? I just want some answers but I dont want to talk to him until they break up. What should I do?
2006-08-05 04:32:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Forget him. Get up, get out and have fun. You are young. You have your whole life ahead of you. Why dwell on someone who doesn't want you anymore? You can find someone who will treat you good, have a fun time and forget about the past. Go do something and meet people. You just might meet someone that you like better than him. Don't let him do this to you anymore. Have a great summer (what's left of it) and enjoy yourself honey, life's too short!!!!
2006-08-05 04:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if he will be back or stay with the new gf but what you should do is try to relax and get used to the idea of seeing him at school.. be cool and calm and dont show that you miss him and that u r still crazy for him.. Just try to be friendly and see how he is doing with the new gf.. remember how u got him to ask u to be his gf and do the same again.. try to win him back if thats what u want and if u rly love him but if u realise that he really loves the other girl just back off .. u want him to be happy.. be nice, friendly, clever and sweet be yourself and if he comes back to you then he really loves you and he was just going through a phase.. U said he told u u were possesive.. sometimes ppl tend to do that when they love someone too much and just cant control their emotions.. show him that u have changed and correct those lil details that made u break up..If he still doesnt come back to you then you are young and so is he.. relatoinships at that age soemtimes dont last for long.. i understand that u miss him and still love him but if he doesnt come back then u should find yourself and make things good for you.. focus on ur studies and enjoy being single.. the right guy will come at the right time..
best of luck and dont worry too much =D
2006-08-05 11:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept it. I am sorry he didnt love u and chances are he doesnt love that another girl too. keep yourself busy, make friends dont think about him. not worth it. no he will not call again to apologize, he might if he is an arsehole and another girl dumps him and he dont have any options. u shouldnt talk to him even if he breaks up. what he has done once he will do it again. why cry for same thing againd and again?
by the way, you say he started dating two weeks later...are you sure he was not preparing for it while dating you?
2006-08-05 13:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by climb_n_dive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it feels as if you will never get over it. You will though. Fake being happy and upbeat when you see him. Don't let him know he has upset you.
As far as his other relationship, yes it is a rebound. He likes having someone three hours away. He doesn't have to work as hard at the relationship since he doesn' see her everyday.
I don't think he will ever call to apologize.
Remember, stay upbeat when you see him. Good luck to you.
2006-08-05 11:41:18 · answer #4 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been here and i know how this feels, what you should do i a) keep yourself occupied. b) try and have some girls nights out, they help alot. c) live your life, go out, party, and move on. He'll see what he's missing. d) or you could get dressed up really hot, know where he is going to be, and go out with the girls so he sees you having a good time without him, worked for me
good luck hun, if you need anything else email me at avillakas@yahoo.com, i could give you more ideas there
2006-08-05 11:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find some time to yourself. you need to keep your mind off him. involve yourself with other activities to keep you from doing thinking of him. i know it sucks, i know you probably get that knot in your stomach when you think about all the things you are going to be missing with him, but it is time to break away. could you date others? just going out with someone makes you feel better sometimes. once you start to move on, the person that broke your heart starts to realize what he lost, and then comes back.
2006-08-05 11:40:52 · answer #6 · answered by gallow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him and don't pay attention to him, he will come around.give him a piece of his own medicine or go date someone who cares.
2006-08-05 11:36:39 · answer #7 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋