at 14, am i too young to know if im gay yet?

Question

ive done stuff before with a boy and really liked it and i really only look at boys. doesnt that mean im gay?

Answer 1

if you think you might be gay then you're gay

Answer 2

No, you're not too young to know if your gay. If you feel like you love a guy then you probably are gay. Being gay is nothing to worry about anyways because many people are gay. When you said you really only look at guys might mean your gay or it might not. Maybe your looking at guys most of the time because your not into liking girls right now. If you have strong feelings for guys in the love way then you're probably gay. It all depends on how you feel. If you find out that your gay don't be ashamed just admit it and be proud. Also, if you are gay people at school might tease you so don't let it get to you. Some people are just jealous and some people are just not mature enough to realize that there are gay people in our world and there is nothing they can't do about it. So whatever you are still be proud of yourself.

Answer 3

Why are you asking this in Relgion and Spirituality? If you are religious then you know the Bible says that is wrong. Nature says it's wrong. And YES you are way too young to know that. Just because you had a good experience with a boy does not mean that is the only sort of good experience there is. Since many people get along better with those of the same sex, they choose that because those of the opposite sex make them nervous. Don't jump on this bandwagon society has created to give excuse and justification to something that is against the laws of nature itself.

Answer 4

No, you are not too young. I've known boys that knew that they were gay when they were 7 or was it 8? I can't remember which age it was that they were but they knew that they were. Also ignore the person that spoke of "hell" for the bible is only a fictionous book created by old people who were bent on world domination through the form of religion.

Answer 5

It could mean you are gay. On the other hand since you are familiar with having sex with another boy and liking it does not automatically mean you are gay. Before you label yourself explore interaction with girls and see how it compairs. This is the only way to find the answer.

Answer 6

ok one. youre very young, as you probably haven't completed puberty yet (completely), both youth (male and female) fantasize, or even experiment with boys and girls and same genders too. youre at that age in life, where you're undecided. once you get around 20 or 22 you will see what you are. you'll have a complete view. if you want to be gay, continue what you're doing. if you want to be straight, i suggest you try changing now, as it's much harder to change when you're older.

2. being gay/lesbian/bi does not result in any facts saying "you will go to hell" or "god will not bless you", it just says "hey, ilike the same gender, or im bi". the bible says "if you believe, you're seen as a follower of god". it doesn't say if you believe and if you're straight. therefore god loves everyone, it's not a sin, it's a disease one's born with from early on. god has no testimony in rejecting ones inflicted with disease.

that's why ignorant mother ******* americans should stop making fun of gays and bis. they're human beings, protected by the constitution. all who make fun, in myopion, are stupid redneck, sandbags in the west.

you choose what you want to be
best luck

Answer 7

you're not too young to know you're gay...but you might just be curious about it...and if you are gay nothing wrong with that either. just because you think about it, doesnt mean you are gay. and dont listen to the bible thumpers about this question, be proud of who you are no matter if it is a gay man...maybe you need to ask this question in the gay/lesbian section...you are going to get a lot of nasty answers here...and you are young and dont need adult hate at such a young age.

Answer 8

Gay is not a religion or even a state of being. It is a temptation to sin. Pray for forgiveness and the strength to si no more.

Answer 9

i think its quite normal for most people around that age to be curious about their sexuality .. give yourself a little time and see what happens ...
above all don't hate anything about yourself whichever way things go .. speak to a counsellor at school or something about any issues you have
above all else you are human and sexual preference is only a small part of the wonderful person you are and will become
good luck xx

Answer 10

you are old enough to know but too young to decide !

Why at 14 would you want to label yourself this way. Sexually (gay or straight) do whatever feels right at the time - live life.

There rant over.

Answer 11

just ask this question to yourself do you feel strange or different around boys? do you like boys or think about them a lot? how do you feel around girls are they attractive to you or not? those are simple questions you can ask yourself if still you don't know well just tried to email me and let me see what i can do i am gay by the way. you can email me at [e-mail]