2006-08-05 02:27:32 · 12 answers · asked by toby_y2001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Go back to the agency, group, hospital, attorney or whoever helped you in the first place. Re-examine all your documents for clues. Ask friends, family, neighbors what they know or remember about the situation, you may be able to pick up small clues about their whereabouts.
If your children aren't yet 18, you may have a difficult time. After 18 the children may be trying to find you too. Put your name & situation out there everywhere. Let them know you're there & want to establish contact.
2006-08-05 02:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by Bluealt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, it might be hard, but find out where they where adopted 2 first like which country or state, than start looking up schools, and make maybe qicknotes in the newspapers around there, the internet is probally your best source, best of luck, hope i helped, Nicole
2006-08-05 09:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you choose to do this, see if there is a third party that can get involved. Like a private investigator.
They can find the kids(if of legal age) and ASK if they want to be found. If they do not, then please obey their wishes.
Please don't take this the wrong way, but giving birth does not make you a parent, the years (and tears) of raising them does!
2006-08-05 09:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them find you when they are older and less likely to still be angry. They may not even know they are adopted.
2006-08-05 09:32:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the **** you gave up your children for adoption, if you find them they will despise you, it will be hard to earn they trust.
2006-08-05 09:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by polish_42 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What state was it in? What year? Boy, girl? Private or through the state? Any lawyers involved?
2006-08-05 09:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by Kats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you give him/her up for adoption ? its going to be hard because he/she can he anywhere just dont give up if you really want to find him/her you keep looking :)
2006-08-05 09:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by jenrocks151 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back to the adoption centre to track them..social welfare..newspaper.
2006-08-05 09:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by Goosters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u have to provide more information for help on here are try the agency you used good luck
2006-08-05 09:32:26 · answer #9 · answered by ladyrena12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you signed a relaease, you cannot look or find till they are over 18
2006-08-05 09:31:32 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋