i have found an boyfriend that i like i am worry that my 2 year old daugter will think that is her dad .her real father dose not want to be in her life should i let her call my boyfriend dad couse he loves her like his on
2006-08-05 02:17:18 · 13 answers · asked by nodnod 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't take that step quite yet. You need to make sure it is a permanent relationship, marriage for example, before you let her call him dad. If you choose to marry him and wants to adopt her, then he becomes dad.
Good Luck, sounds like you found a great guy!
2006-08-05 02:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be careful that they dont' get too overly attached because if in the future you two can't make it, your daughter will be greatly affected also. Why don't you and him just date, outside of being with your daughter and get to know eachother first. Then if things are looking good and you and he are talking about the future, then introduce your daughter. And if you and he are secure in your relationship and if he's the only father your daughter has known in her short life, then I see no reason to not allow her to call him daddy. I've known other kids that have done so.
2006-08-05 02:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one. If you are serious about this guy and think he's gonna be around while she is growing up that is fine. You should tell her when she is old enough to understand that he's not her real dad but he loves her like he was. Also it's important to remember that if you let him get close to her and then break up that it's not just gonna be you that is heartbroken. I think sometimes people forget that.
2006-08-05 02:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by lady25mo2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not let her call him daddy until things with the two of you are for sure going to be for a very long time, because this could damage her in the long run! I would have her say his name at least until the two of you are very serious. I would make sure that he is OK with it, even if he does love her like his own! Good Luck
2006-08-05 02:21:48 · answer #4 · answered by cheer8ko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great!! If he accepts your child as his own..nothing like it..let him be called dad so that the young mind is at peace!!!
Motherhood is a truth but paternity is a belief!! A gentleman can convert it to almost a reality!!!
2006-08-05 02:23:22 · answer #5 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. Just refer to him by his name only. Eventually she will call him the same. If things dont work out, last thing you want is your daughter upset she lost another daddy.
2006-08-05 02:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by Sudoku Player 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes ok with it and you are to then theres no problem with it but just as long as hes gonna be in your life for awhile you wouldnt want her to see to many men as her father this will confuse her.
2006-08-05 02:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not until he's commited to you completely!!
Your daughter will end up being VERY confused if she bonds with him as "Daddy" and then he's gone and another "Daddy" is in your lives....
2006-08-05 02:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by JackJester 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as far as she is a child its ok... let her call. once she grows up you have to tell ( i mean both you and your B.F) in a convincing matter the truth.Child is a child let her call if you are your B.F doesnot have any objection and if your x doesnot mind it.
2006-08-05 02:24:08 · answer #9 · answered by senthil r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not until you are married, or you are sure both of you are committed together.
2006-08-05 02:23:13 · answer #10 · answered by True Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋