During this peroid i have spent so much for him and each time we have misunderstanding i end up begging him because i love him so much.What do i do now.
2006-08-05 00:36:37 · 24 answers · asked by shaky shaky baby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love has set sail I'm afraid so now it's time for you to let go and move on.
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2006-08-08 21:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U gotta stop letting men see ur vulnerable side. Once u do that u lose dignity. Some people get pleasure out of seeing others break down and beg to save a relation. It can sort of be an ego booster for themselves. If this guy wanted to be with u he would be. It shouldn't be necessary for him to see u beg and cry. U have got to take back the power that u have given him. Break-ups aren't easy, and if this isn't the first man that you've been with then u know that these thing pass and u eventually move on. Whether u get back with this person or not try to never reveal your vulnerable side. Try letting this person come back to u because he really misses and loves u, not because he gets off on torturing u or worse, feels sorry for u. U can't be afraid 2B alone and I doubt that you'll spend too much time alone. Remember, when one door closes another door opens.
2006-08-05 01:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself more. You have been freed to be found by a good man who will not have you BEGGING for him. Be complete and content in yourself. Six years is a long time and I don't mean to sound simplistic and say, Move On, Look Forward and Don't Look Back, but that is the best thing to do. You will have some good days and some bad. Give yourself time to heal. Get into YOU again. Read these books: "He's Just Not that Into You" by Greg Behrendt (any bookstore, online bookstore or library has it ~ it is funny and great!) and "Mars and Venus on a Date" by John Grey before you get out there into dating again. I have been heartbroken before and I remember my brother looking me in the eyes after I'd been inconsolably depressed for a couple weeks and he said "He did you a FAVOR!" He really did. That relationship lasted 7 and a half years. My next one lasted 5, and ended for the best after a lot of good times. I've now been married for a year and 3 months and have never been happier. Things will get better and brighter. Allow yourself to mourn, but then celebrate! The best is yet to come!
2006-08-05 00:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely Im 22 never dated everyone, nevertheless virgin. the females my age all are married or with little ones, so I been sorta questioning as much as now somebody youthful, yet i don't understand any ladies now. Ive lost touch with anybody in school, I in basic terms artwork in a small mill thats my existence. Now a 24 with a 14 year previous which would be seen undesirable here. The under pressure out factor is its criminal for a 14 year previous to be with a 14 year previous.
2016-11-03 22:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious he has no attachment to or for you. Gain some strength and move on. In a year's time you will look back to discover why the heck you dated this loser in the first place, while walking down the street with you new love. Someone that gives you all the love and affection you are now wasting on this guy. It hurts! Time is a great healer. I know this all so well...
2006-08-05 00:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its time to move on .if you lived in colorado i would consider finding you a decent partner to spend your life with .try to play the bad guy and push him away and see where that goes.if you live together move out (absence makes the heart grow fonder) if there is anything there really.love has to swing both ways to work .if only one person is rowing the boat you will just go in circles.so if he doesnt love you it wont be a good result for either on of you .so take some time ,6 years is not really a long time when you consider avg age of death is 70 so cheer up its a big world youll find the real one for you .
(SMILE IT MAKES PEOPLE WONDER WHATS REALLY GOING ON)
2006-08-05 00:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by whiskeydog06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough information to make a very educated suggestion, but the part about "each time we have misunderstanding i end up begging him" does not sound heathly.
So is he calling its quits for real, or does he simply want to see his trained dog, do the beg trick again?
2006-08-05 00:41:41 · answer #8 · answered by tm_tech32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to me. PLEAZE move on. you are still young. okay, if this is a on again and off again thing it needs to b let go of. ok you may love him and u can continue on loving him from a distance. everytime you have a misundersatnding with him and he leaves, and you beg him back all you are doing it making him feel like a man and that he has this mind controll over you. you need to get over him. and enjoy being single and enjoying life not crying over him........ but if u dont want to then at least take a break or something because u need to clear your thoughts and move on........... best luck. ......... p.s. is there ne talk of marriage in this relationship
2006-08-05 00:43:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard, been there, done that... I threw my self into a job and had lots of fun with my friends and with out know it or doing it on purpose, I found myself with a wonderful man that is now my husband ~ who is MUCH MUCH Better!! Enjoy being single! You will find that it's not that bad and some day you will find the right man! If I can do it, anybody can!
2006-08-05 00:43:47 · answer #10 · answered by Jenny C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Preserve your dignity. Let him go. You cannot alter his mind, regardless of how hard you try. I know it doesn't feel like it now, but there are better men out there.
When you reflect on these moments years from now, if you whined and begged to him, and basically acted like a rug, you will not like these memories. But if you acted strong, and just let him walk away, you'll be proud of yourself.
So let him go, and do something nice for yourself, whether that be hanging out with your friends, buying something that you always wanted, or going on a trip.
Ignore him, he doesn't deserve you. If he did, he wouldn't be leaving.
2006-08-05 00:44:50 · answer #11 · answered by redangus22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋