ok this is 4 my friend. he likes this gurl, and they went out 4 about a year. he still is in love w/ her and they r friends, but she called him an insensitive jerk and he shouldnt like her cuz she hates him and stuff. hes asking me for help, and i dont kno wut 2 tell him. i tell him 2 move on, but he doesnt want 2 cuz hes really really sad. wut can i tell him?!?!? =( i hate seeing him sad!
2006-08-05 00:28:00 · 18 answers · asked by Krista H. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've already told him exactly what he should do now it's up to him.
2006-08-05 00:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should personally stay out of it but advise him for his own well being otherwise you'll end up in this big mess as well. However what he needs to do is talk to her and ask her why she feels that way.
He must of done something or she must of thought he did something, that's how relationships fall apart.. the lack of honesty and communication.
The best thing to do is for him to talk to her about it to get some answers. I'm sure when he does he can finally move on whether he's with her or not.
You all sound young, more fish in the sea! He will find the right girl in due time.
2006-08-05 00:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 12:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its tough to find words for a broken heart. Time will heal the wounds, To be in love with someone that doesn't love you, it's just about impossible to stay friends who hang out. He needs his time to get over this girl and the sadness. and then get out and have fun like it used to be before he hooked up with the girl. There's someone out there for everyone. Don't waste time,, hers or his on something that isn't going to work. Usually after the sadness is over you begin to realize that this person really wasn't the one for you. Good luck to him
2006-08-05 00:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by itsme_122 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Point out to him these bad feelings won't last forever, and every day they will get less and less until he feels better. It WILL get better, but it will take time. In the meantime he may want to examine his behavior - why did she think he was an insensitive jerk? Is there anything he can improve about himself? One day there will be someone special, and he won't want her to think the same thing.
2006-08-05 00:34:49 · answer #5 · answered by telaine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for him. In time he'll feel better. Maybe you could set him up with another girl and get his mind off being sad. He's lucky to have a friend like you.
2006-08-05 00:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abuse of any kind is just plain wrong. I would question his attachment to such abuse and wouldn't be too surprised if there's a family pull to this kind of behavior(IE: his mother/father, grandmother/grandfather, etc.) Although he has a love for her, I'm sure he figures somehow he can change her and we know the only one that can change you is you! I would stay out of it for now. Kind of just take a watch and see approach. Because when all else fails, they will be blaming you for your bad advise and their relationship demise.
2006-08-05 00:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can tell him 2 find another gurl like her
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2006-08-05 00:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could like find out if another girl likes him them hook them both up. Then he will forget about the first girl.
2006-08-05 00:34:35 · answer #10 · answered by Steve N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u need to give him time to get over this. Be his support. Do force his to give up his feelings because that will happen over time
2006-08-05 00:34:29 · answer #11 · answered by Clare C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋