2006-08-05 00:13:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have dated a lot of "bad boy's".But I alway's end up dumping them even if they want to be w/ me.I won't tolerate it 4 2 long.I would really want a nice guy instead.Most nice guy's won't just come out & be aggressive.I think that is a real turn on. Which is why the other's got a date in the first place.Honestly you don't want to be w/ someone just because U treat them well & they take advantage of that.If there is 1 girl U are thinking of right now let her know if you haven't.If she is just "TRYING TO DECIDE".Move on there is someone who want's U for U.Even if we don't find them til we are like 80
2006-08-05 00:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by deny777 1 · 7⤊ 2⤋
A lot of times nice guys can't find the right words to tell a girl he loves her or has feelings for her therfore the girl doesn't know that the nice guy would like to be with her.I have had the same problem but in the end I won the girl as she saw just how I treat women and how caring I can be towards her needs.
2006-08-05 07:18:58 · answer #2 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gareth......it is simple. We are the result of millions of years of evolution. We have only become an urbanised industrialised society with rule of law in the last few hundred years. Evolutionarily speaking the bad boy has much more chance of providing for, protecting and sireing offspring then the nice guy who historically will have been left out of the gene pool.
My modern day solution is to exhibit some of the aspects and traits of the bad boy but still be a nice person inside. i.e Don't supplicate to women.....EVER. Show her that you are the prize and never put up with girl games or flakiness. It is counter-intuitive but having this attitude will get you laid more than a rock star on tour.
Viking xxx
2006-08-05 07:55:43 · answer #3 · answered by Viking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course nice guys get girls, it's not that they are nice that is the problem it's that they are shy. Shy guys don't get girls because they won't make a move, and not many girls will either. If you a nice guy and you are having trouble with girls, I say find a nice girl ask her out and kiss her.
2006-08-05 07:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dude i guess u n me are likewise, i heard once theres no room for nice n sweet guys....this is kalyug.....the bad rules over the good..im not saying the bad wins........in the end its the nice guys that get a perfect girl.......but im talkin bout the frustration that nice guys go through.............so buddy hold on fr a while u definetely get some one who is equally nice like you.........noce to know that there are still nice guys around
2006-08-05 07:27:16 · answer #5 · answered by Sahil M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason nice girls never get the guy!
2006-08-05 07:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by Tara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because nice guys are not liked.
Don't take my word for it... read your history books.
I used to get a lot more girls when I was a jerk than being the nice guys. Go figure.
2006-08-05 07:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell me about it gareth! i'm almost 33 and too nice for my own good, the girls in most cases like the so called bad boys.
i see that one girl says she likes the nice guys, she is the exception to the rule i think you will find.
2006-08-05 07:18:03 · answer #8 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken0909 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes they like the bad guys, jerks, machos and all other kind of stuff, not the nice guy.
2006-08-05 07:20:08 · answer #9 · answered by Peter S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they do but you also have to be willing to show the girl that if some guy is going to mess with her that you will defend her. If you are too nice to defend her when she needs it that she will not stick arround.
2006-08-05 07:19:22 · answer #10 · answered by Diamond Freak :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋