i just found out i am pregnant how should i tell him? i havent cheated but he cant have kids he had a visectomy and im pregnant!!!
2006-08-05 00:04:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you haven't cheated, than his vasectomy didn't work. That can be checked and confirmed so be sure you don't lie. It would be better to tell the truth than to get caught up in a big mess like that. But they don't always work, neither does having a women's tubes tied. I got pregnant about 9 years after mine. I wouldn't have believed it if it hadn't happened to me, lol. Just tell him to trust you and if he's a good guy he will, unless he has reason not to. I might look up some information on the net before telling him, then you would have some facts. That would probably help, just because some guys aren't to well informed about this stuff and won't believe it.
2006-08-05 00:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by Vicm0322 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is going to be very tricky for you, I too have had a vasectomy and it's because I don't want any more children. If he had one because he doesn't want children he will probably not take the news well. I would also assume that the woman had been with another man, but if she told me she hasn't then I would go get tested to see if the vasectomy didn't take. I would just tell him like you just told us, I hope he isn't the violent type, if he is do it in a public place.
2006-08-05 07:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight....your boyfriend had a visectomy and can't have kids....you haven't cheated on him....and yet you are pregnant...How is that possible?!!!
2006-08-05 07:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by Zara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he lied, or the vasectomy was reversed or he was misinformed about the likelyhood of it being 100 percent fool proof. Hey.. if you are pregnant and have not cheated.. its his.. so . dont worry. If he freaks out.. a few simple tests will prove his sperm count and of course the paternal test when the baby is born. So.. dont sweat it. If you are innocent of cheating.. then he is guilty of being the dad ok?
2006-08-05 07:13:31 · answer #4 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your 100% sure that its his, maybe you should talk to him. Vasectomy can sometimes fail. I mean maybe the procedure wasnt done properly. Vasectomy failure is seen in 1 in 200 to 400 patients. It is due mostly to technical errors such as removal of <1 cm of vas.Try to ask for a doctors advise and let her/him explain it to your bf. Good Luck
2006-08-05 07:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't listen to people that tell you vasectomies sometimes fail. The truth is that they almost always work (and yes, I've had one and been tested).
Your boyfriend is flat-out lying about the vasectomy because he wants to try to skate out of his responsibilities.
2006-08-05 07:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vasectomies are not %100 effective but you will need a good doctor to back you up on this one. otherwise you should get DNA testing to show proof. Good luck.
2006-08-05 07:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by AussiePete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously vasectomy isn't 100 percent...just tell him the truth and hopefully he trust and believes u. shud go to the docs together and see if its true that you still can get pregnant over vasectomy
2006-08-05 07:09:51 · answer #8 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you dump him and you won't have a problem otherwise if you tell him you're going to be in a lot of trouble.
2006-08-05 07:08:13 · answer #9 · answered by The PunkRocker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL tell him that you are having a baby and tell him that you haven't cheated on him.
2006-08-05 07:09:30 · answer #10 · answered by Stefani92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋