when we talk about it he says if it happens it happens why would he say that if he cant have kids? how can i be so sure he isnt lying about not being able to have kids he already has a son but he says he had a vesictomy done. and now i am pregnant at 19 years old and i was wondering how i could be if i only have been with him and he said he cant have kids.
2006-08-04 23:47:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl i hate to tell you this but your boyfriend lied to you just so he could go raw and now he has you trapped for life and if he is like most uys once you tell him that you are pregnant he is going to start accusing you of fcheating and saying the baby isn't his and flee the scene i wish you the best of luck in your situation.
2006-08-04 23:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman open your eyes he flat out lied to you. Proof is in your womb right now. This is not a man you should spend the rest of your life with :(. In order to get you to have sex he said he had a Vasectomy done... though sometimes can have them reversed why would he lie about something like that... well sounds to me he just didn't want to use a protection and didn't really care about you at all or he's trying to sow as many seeds as possible. Leave now before this really gets ugly before you know it he will have 5 or 6 children by 5 or 6 different women paying child support to each one or running for his life so he doesn't have too... can you see how bad this can get real quick.
2006-08-05 06:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can that BE you ask....???? Are you a dumba$$$ or what?
The dude got in your pants cuz he had a story you believed. You had unprotected sex again because of his lame brain story. A vasectomy...sure ....and you believed his story.
Unless your name is Mary......and are still claiming the immaculant conception....YOU ARE PG because you spread your legs and let this dude have his way.....all I can say what a dumba$$$
2006-08-05 06:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously this guy has lied to you but if you really wanty to be sure about it then ask him to have a sperm count done and then you will know for sure . if he has had a vesectomy the sperm count will be so low that it would be impossible for you to fall pregnant to him.If he has a high count then obviously he is trying to pull the wool over your eye's and like it or not he is going to be a daddy again.
2006-08-05 06:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was informed incorrectly. Not all vasectomies are 100 percent foolproof. And maybe he was lying. Just ask him after you tell him you are pregnant.
2006-08-05 06:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because either he lied about having a vasectomy, or it failed (some do). Figure out what to do about your pregnancy and then go with him to the doctors.
2006-08-05 06:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may have told you that he couldn't have kids so he didn't have to use a condom. sometimes-very rarely, a vasectomy fails. make sure he gets tested for paternity to clear all doubt. good luck,
2006-08-05 06:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he really did have a vasectomy, then he can't have kids (I know because I had one, and they are quite reliable).now you have to find out if he really had one or not.
2006-08-05 06:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he lied. what he was really saying was that if you get pregnant i will deny that it was mine cause i dont want any more kids, but i still want to fool around
2006-08-05 06:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by Resasour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cheated or he's lying ! Its either one or the other
2006-08-05 06:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by Baghdad Pete ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋