do u think i'll get marry or won't ................. i haven't girl friend....?
2006-08-04 23:13:17 · 13 answers · asked by dodo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You are very young. Too young, really. Don't worry about it. It will all happen for you. Be patient. Have friends, have goals, do projects, run two miles every day. Get at least 8 hours of sleep every night. Marriage is one of those things that looks desirous from the outside, but once inside you find out that it is not as advertised. Your vision of marriage is having someone special who will be a friend and someone who loves you and you love them. The reality will be someone not so special that nags you to death, withholds sex, and spends your hard earned money like it was water. That is exactly what you are pining for and don't know it. Do you want to avoid all this? Go to the hardware store and buy yourself a pair of work gloves. I'll bet you a dollar that you won't buy gloves too big or too small. You'll get the pair that fits perfectly and is the most comfortable. People are gloves. Some fit better than others and of those who fit, some are more comfortable. The whole problem is we are lonely or hormonal, so we jump into the first thing that comes along. We grab the first pair of gloves that comes along. Too big; too small? To know if you have someone who fits you, requires time to get to know that someone. Today, boy meets girl, jumps into bed, finds out her name, lives with her awhile, dumps her or becomes the dumpee.
True love grows from acquaintanceship to friendship to really good friendship, to love and respect, to intimacy. Problem with our society today is everyone wants it all NOW. We rush into everything including marriage or relationships. No wonder we have such lousy marriages. So youngster, look before you leap.
2006-08-04 23:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by pshdsa 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i tihnk that u r enough grown up to marry but if u concentrate on ur goal that it would be more better if u in future became a geat personality than everyone would be after u to marry her and i think that u hav a girl friend and u should not embrasse her so good luck!!!!
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2006-08-05 08:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by chahat j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your still young , you have years of fun ahead before you should consider getting married.
2006-08-05 06:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let the age worry u so much but rather just analise and see if u really ready to enter into a relationship and get married?
2006-08-05 06:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you!
Patience is the key word!
Good luck!
2006-08-05 06:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by angellilien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r still young like me. why hurry to get married or have a gf.
2006-08-05 06:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait another five years , become successful in your career , than go for marriage .
2006-08-05 06:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in order to get married you must have a girlfriend.so until you get a girlfriend then no you wont get married.
2006-08-05 06:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you look like a cartoon
2006-08-05 06:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should consider working on your SPELLING skills first....and use SPELL CHECK until then
2006-08-05 08:31:51 · answer #10 · answered by The answer man in Pa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋