my boyfriend is at the other side of the world. he used to call, email and send text messages to me.. now he hardly call, email and text me. he said nothing has changed with regards to his feelings, that he loves me so much. he's just busy with work and is dealing with some problems. he just started working a month ago. i understand that.. but sometimes, i find it irresponsible when he promised something.. and break it.. it happened a couple of times. now, i'm beginning to have doubts. and slowly falling out of love because he had disappointed me many times. what should i do? i don't wanna nag him.. afraid that it might drag him away. i need serious advice, please.
2006-08-04 23:06:50 · 10 answers · asked by julian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, give him sometime. Let him be want he want first but make sure he's aware that ur around there for him. First lesson is DONT PUSH GUYS! they hate it. He just started working and definitely he wants to settle few things. Im sure once everything is done he will be back to normal. Don t expect to much from him. Let him have his own space right now. Dont make him to commit. Guys is not like the girls. We always put someone we love first in the place. Guys like to put their future first. Try to go out with ur friends for the moment and he will come back to you at no time. trust me.
2006-08-04 23:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by frozen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can totally see where you are coming from here but as a traveller i can see his side too. He is in a new enviroment and he obviously misses you and needed you as it must have been scary to move and stuff but now he has settled in. I'm not saying he doesn't need you anymore far from it, but he now has to get settled into a different life- that's something you can't help him with. He needs to find his own feet, new friends, work mates and who he is in relation to his new surroundings.
I know it doesn't feel very nice but give him time and if it was meant to be he will be in contact with u more and all the other things he promised. In the mean time have a little chat with him, share you're feelings about it and get on with your life too! :)
2006-08-04 23:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by bananapancakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance romances are the most difficult to make work, since a good part of being in love is the physical aspect.
Maybe you should try using snail mail to send him letters and photos of what's going on around town, to keep him in the loop. And to let him know how much you still care for him.
2006-08-04 23:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you know what they say about long distance affairs. It ain't easy. I am/was in one too. you see i am confused myself. But if he says he is too busy because of work, then give him the benefit of the doubt after all you are not there to see him. But he shouldn't be too busy to send you a text message. It would be preferable for u to call him and talk to him about it, try to make him see or understand they way you feel.
2006-08-04 23:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by lolalinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to Lake George
2016-03-26 23:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having a distance relationship, you have this kind of preparation...If you are not prepared, and feel miserable of him treating you this way, then look for another guys who will be there for you when you need him...To make yourself feel better
2006-08-04 23:17:54 · answer #6 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new boyfriend
2006-08-04 23:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
taLk heart-to-heart and ask him what he feeLs about u. teLL him u're disappointed in him and ur reasons. hope this can heLp!
2006-08-04 23:21:15 · answer #8 · answered by mariana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start with a new guy im ready if you are
2006-08-04 23:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by WIZZARD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and ask straight up
2006-08-04 23:13:47 · answer #10 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋