why does everyone always tell people to wear condoms?

Question

god im 14 and i hate when people tell me that ive never worn a condom and my gf isnt pregnant yet god yeah never worn 1 and never will

Answer 1

That's why your penis will look like a GINGER ROOT!!

Answer 2

I was against condoms. Used a few times til got too tired of getting allergic re-actions. I never had him tested. Major mistake.

I got std. Thank god it is gone. He also cheated on me. I would of been at risk higher if I didn't protect myself again.

I wore condoms even though I broke out due to allergic reaction to all brands I used.

Tested my fiance and I prior to sexual engagment. We just use b.c cuz we are serious in my heart I know he wont' cheat.

Learn from other's mistakes dude. People tell you to wear them because they don't want to see you with std's or getting hurt. Plus, helps prevent pregnancy.

When you are sexually active. You will hear it even into your adulthood. Time to just appreciate the fact that in the most blunt words can be a carrying point about it.

You will think twice when you do get her pregnant or std.

Plus, 14 and being a dad seems like an idea to you? If not, make sure she is on the pill.

Answer 3

Everyone should have save sex. You don't need any unexpected accidents....You should be able to take care of yourself first before you decide to bring a baby into the picture. And at 14 you are too young to even be thinking about sex, you have your whole life in front of you. Are you even old enough to know what love is? Enjoy your childhood it is something that you can never get back. A 14 year old is too young to be a parent. There are also too many diseases that you can contract by having unprotected sex. Some of these can end your life. Don't rush into having sex because it is what everyone is doing, save yourself for that person you will meet down the road who you will want to spend the rest of your life with. Someone who just wants to have sex is not the person you want. You want the one who likes you for who you are and loves to spend time with you just to be with you, talking, holding hands, etc... Be a boy now and worry about being a man after you grow up....Do all those childhood things that make you happy...

Answer 4

Grow up.

You should not be having sex when you are 14 and if you want to get a girl pregnant then you are going the right way about it - she may not be yet but then again it is only a matter of time. Plus if you want to get a disease ...go ahead don't wear a condom - you will like all the examinations they will have to give you to stop your dick from falling off!

Answer 5

Let me educate you my friend. The reasons why they tell you to wear a condom is 1) for birth control since at 14 you are not ready to be a daddy yet. 2) Have you heard of a little thing called AIDS? Using a condom will greatly decrease your odds of contracting both AIDS and fatherhood.

Answer 6

People say that for more reasons than just pregnancy. There are also STD's which most condoms will protect against. One day you might just slip, and your girlfriend could get pregnant. Condoms are a very good idea. I won't have sex without one. But that's just me. If you're going to have sex without a condom, that's your choice, just be prepared for the possiblity of fatherhood, make sure your girlfriend is ready for motherhood. Be safe!

Answer 7

Have you never heard of AIDS?

Have you never heard of sexually transmitted diseases?

If you are not aware of the above by 14 years of age and why you should use a condom - then you are not resposible enough to have sex.

I hope you live long enough to enjoy life in a mature frame of mind, because if you dont start thinking smart you may be a very sorry adult when you get there.

Answer 8

Condoms are not only contraceptive but they also reduce the risk of sexually transmitted diseases.the only reason people would tell you to wear one is so at your age you don't ruin your life by having a baby and to protect you from any unwanted diseases.I have advised my boys to do the same thing but if the don't take any advice then they get what they deserve.How do you know that the girl wants to have a baby?do you ever think of how she feels about pregnancy as you sound like you are being very selfish and don't care about thegirl at all.

Answer 9

I love how you say, "my gf isn't pregnant yet". The operative word is YET. She will be. You've been lucky so far, but it is the equivalent of playing Russian Roulette. Would you put a loaded gun to your head with one bullet in it? I doubt it. I won't even start with all the diseases out there.

Sex is an adult act with consequences. You're obviously not mature enough to understand that yet and you certainly shouldn't be having sex without understanding that. God, I hope your girlfriend is taking the pill.

Answer 10

Because they care about you, I'm sure your parents don't want you to contract HIV. It's a terrible thing to watch someone you love dying of AIDS. But heck if you want to why should anyone try and stop you from doing so right? STDS are great too. If you get syphilis your penis will burn like hell every time you urinate and, now this is the really FUN part. Your skin will dry up, and you will slowly go insane and more than likely die in a puddle of your own piss and blood. But heck You should be able to do just that since that is what you WANT to do...and don't forget your girlfriend because everything YOU get she gets...HAVE FUN

Answer 11

watch it man u can never trust anybody now days. i know some who have died of and are living with aids.how easy can it be 4 ur girl to sleep with a guy and pass it to u.u wont know cuz she true to u right and boom u start getting sick coughing up blood.go to doctors and u got hiv.the babys the last thing u should worry bout.ur life is whats on the line when u have unprotected sex.dont 4 get temptation out there and so is stds.condoms are ur ticket to a healthy life.also they have condoms where it feels so thin u think ur have nothing on.wrap it up man think bout the future.good luck