Do the people who approved snobbery in my previous questions approve swinging?
In future will I be laughed at for having a conscientious objection to swinging? Is swinging rapidly becoming a fashion statement?
2006-08-04 21:31:20 · 11 answers · asked by Razor 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear piscean apple. Swinging is a supposedly a high society lifestyle that includes wide range of sexual activities like swapping partners, threesome, or lovemaking in a group etc.
2006-08-04 21:40:32 · update #1
Swinging is adultery. Enough said, I believe that a marriage is a partnership between a man and a woman. When you invite someone into your marriage bed you bring in more baggage then what you started with if any. It's like telling someone other then a helpful therapist about your martial problmes your pretty much saying jump in bed w/ my wife and I or husband (w/e). It's funny how people believe that swinging actually spices up a marriage. I fail to see how. Because to me it's obviously clear your NOT attracted to your partner any more and see other pleasure else where. Instead of indulging in swinging why not just divorce. It may be messy, but so is adultery. I have an objection to swinging myself as you, can tell from the statements above. I think that if you want to spice things up do toys, outfits, lotions, get kinky if you want, but why committ adultery? I don't think it's old fashion I think it's a perfect trend to be against it.
2006-08-05 12:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, It has been around for ever. Bored farmers swapping wives... greek orgies... HBO, Showtime... sex is in, always has been, always will be. The only question is where do we go from here (a place where sexuality and open-mindedness is seemingly at its peak) I mean what other joys in life compare to this incredible bonding experience when all anyone really wants is to feel connected to the rest of the world? Couples can share in this mutual desire that is a natural occurance and experience it together with other couples of a similar nature... what's not to love? Or am I misunderstanding this entirely? Swingers = couples that trade/share spouses right?
It never ceases to suprise me at how fearful and insecure people are though... I mean, doesn't a long, drawn out, monogomous relationship tend to lead to a relatively non-existant sex life due to boredom and over-exposure to the same experience? Like eating the same food every day for life...
And as you put, "high-society" is more bored than the rest of us since they can retire early and dont have to work so much, having maids and nanny's and the most comfortable of ammenities... whats left in life but sex?
2006-08-05 04:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not.
In my own opinion I believe that swinging is just a lack of love, if I love my man I would not even bare the thought of him touching another girl!
And swinging goes BEYOND touching, love is cherishing and caring about your parntner and ONLY your partner, I can never understand how people share there marriage bed!
Not only does it pass many disease I feel it degrees us as human beings with brain into animals with only sexual breeding on their minds.
True love does not need sex to keep it fueled up, just take a look at happy couples that are married 60/70 years +!!
2006-08-05 04:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by ilga6wah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not old fashioned to not indulge in swinging. I would never let my boyfriend nor I swing. There are too many complications with trading partners. You might develop feelings for the other person. You might get extremely jealous watchign your partner with someone else. And many other things. If you don't want to swing, don't. It's a personal choice.
2006-08-05 04:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You are not old fashioned for not getting into swinging. In fact, you sound like a very responsible person. Stick to monogamy. It is much much safer thanks to all of the diseases we have in this world. Playing with a hand grenade makes more sense than screwing multiple partners.
2006-08-05 04:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude you dont have a problem if you have a problem with some other dude boning your woman just imagine as hes pounding your womans guts out in ways you never could while she orgasms over and over screaming and sweating, and the whole ride home all shes thinking about is how great sex was with that other guy f**k that id break his neck your fine dont worry about it
2006-08-05 04:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not!! I think this is way over rated, on top of being disgusting!! I don't think people are born with brains any more, they just go with what the next person said or did!!!
2006-08-05 04:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by AAP0305 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're missing out on alot of fun
2006-08-05 04:45:49 · answer #8 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't swing otherwise your neighbor call to 911
2006-08-05 04:37:20 · answer #9 · answered by john_0502000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats swinging?
2006-08-05 04:36:26 · answer #10 · answered by DJ Alex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋