she's supposed to be str8, but she wants to explore. what should i say to her?
2006-08-04 21:26:28 · 17 answers · asked by wondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She's not supposed to be anything besides your sister. If she's legal, and safe, she can let her freak flag fly any way she wants.
2006-08-04 21:29:46 · answer #1 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your sister and she has confided in you for your opinion.if it was my sister I would simply tell her that is her life and if she wants to explore then it is her right to do so.I would however advise her to be carefull and to pick another woman carefully someone she can trust and who is not going to treat her any different if it doesn't work out for her.I would also let her know that i would be there for her no matter what happens.
2006-08-05 05:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by flying_eagle_72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls entertain the thought of sexual exploration with another girl, and it's quite normal. She should be careful and treat it with sensitivity. And don't fret if she starts a serious relationship, after all, it is her life.
2006-08-05 04:38:05 · answer #3 · answered by Scabius Fretful 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say what you feel. If you think it is not appropriate...tell her. If you think its ok then tell her. Her age is important in the decision. Is she ready for all of the mental consequences of this action. Does she understand safe sex. Give her the information she needs to make the best decision. She might need to be talking with parents.
2006-08-05 04:31:44 · answer #4 · answered by Yourname Here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming she's of legal age to make decisions on her own, that's really her choice. As long as she experiments in a safe manner, that's really all that matters in respect to your involvement and support as a sibling.
2006-08-05 04:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by "IRonIC" by Alanis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by "supposed" to be straight? Is this something she's said, or something you just expect of her?
Your sister can experiment any way she wants (safety caveats apply, but she can probably look after herself) -- her sexuality really isn't any of your business (unless she's into incest too).
2006-08-05 04:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by 876 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sister is going thru a stage of "wondering"
my sister and i both went thru this stage
it's hard to know what to say, but it's best if she explore's and find's out on her own, rather then die wondering..
Support her and let her know that you are there for her when she needs a shoulder to lean on or cry on.
2006-08-05 04:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by Brenda B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm ...you must ask her why she wants to yohooo a another girl?
The ends of interesting experience are not always good!
And maybe thi sanother girl is like provoker?
2006-08-05 04:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by woo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its her choice whether she wants to explore or not. Its her body and her experience.
2006-08-05 04:30:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her explore as long as she does it cautiously... Take care and good luck..
2006-08-05 04:29:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋