i'm getting married in october and love my fiance dearly, but theres this blond sort in my local every friday night. i knew she fancied me but ididnt wanna know anyway to cut a long story short when the pub closes she takes me in the car park goes down on her knees and gives me the mother of all blows, what im asking is if i dont touch her am i cheating on my darling fiance?????????
2006-08-04 21:00:02 · 26 answers · asked by qcumber man 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no you are not cheating her ,you are acting rightly
2006-08-04 21:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by preaty khan 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
UM, yea. Anything, anything, anything you can't tell your girl about another woman is cheating. I'm not talking about past relationships.......Honestly..........are you ready for marriage? Do you really love her? Serious soul searchin' required here buddy! If you really love her, you would not care what another person could offer you, you would whole-heartedly know what you have is the best there is. Furthermore, why risk the chance of contracting some STD (which, yes, can be passed through oral sex) to bring home to the love of your life. To watch her suffer or even eventually die, because of some blonde "what was her name again?" You need to figure this out before you hurt her more than emotionally, better that than have the knowledge of her sickness on your head. You should figure this out before you walk down that isle boy, there is no "edit, undo" in life.
2006-08-05 04:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by Krissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have had an intimate sexual experience with this woman who gave you the BJ. When you get married, you are basically saying that you are going to be with this person emotinoally, sexually, for better and worse, for a life time. You are saying that you love her and will honor her with your body, sexually and
exclusively.
Please don't fall into the Kennedy Family trap of, "Heh, it doesn't mean anything if it's just kissing/bj/sex with someone else."
If you're not committed to the relationship why should she be? How would you feel if you found out that she gave another guy a BJ while you guys were engaged?
It's a lifetime commitment to love and honor each other. Don't go into a marriage without a thorough resect for it.
2006-08-05 04:16:42 · answer #3 · answered by PDY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A better question to ask is: will your fiance consider what you did to be cheating? The answer: if you're doing something with a girl and you don't want her to know about it, then in her book you are cheating. I wouldn't consider it cheating, but she will. DO NOT LET HER FIND OUT.
2006-08-05 04:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by John Doe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely cheating and you must ask yourself do you really love her your fiance because if you did then you would've stopped the blond no even before she gave you the mother of all blows.....maybe you're just not ready.....think about it.................or teach your lady how to satisfy you in that sense....be open about what you like and how to make your sex life better than ever,because you're going to be with her, encourage new life experience and be free there's nothing to hide it should be more fun now.......................
2006-08-05 04:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by kevie_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer.. Cheating is cheating.. Hypothetical: What if one day your fiancee tells you she wants you to meet her bridesmaids, and she turns out to be one of them.. You'll be back here asking questions to strangers again.. Go on and get married if you are sure about it. But if you have to get "blows "in a parking lot..... Think about it..Take care and good luck..
2006-08-05 04:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what if your darling fiance was having some guy who fancied her eat her out every friday night, but she didn't touch him.....would you think that's cheating???
i think you already know the answer to your own question. stop looking for excuses to keep doing what your doing.
2006-08-05 04:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are no technicalities in a relationship, either you love her enough not do that kinda thing or you don't....
Question: How would feel if your girl took some guy she didn't even know outside and got on her knees and did the job, would that be cheating?
2006-08-05 04:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by babygurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid so, you touched her because her tongue was on your ****, hun... I can't believe you did that to you fiance... Better not tell her. She would be devastated. That was very very naughty of you..>:-P What would you think if you found out your girl gave your mate a blow? You wouldn't like much would you?
2006-08-05 04:05:13 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are. you had the free will and choice to stop this blonde chick from giving you oral stuff and you chose not to. regardless of whether or not you touched her by not stopping her you actively participated in the act. do the right thing and tell your fiance.
2006-08-05 04:03:09 · answer #10 · answered by stephyr25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very simple answer to this question.
If your fiancee was asking this question after a guy went downtown on her, but she didnt touch him, would she be cheating? How would you feel. You sir are not ready to
get married.
2006-08-05 04:04:10 · answer #11 · answered by Yourname Here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋