If iam 19years old ,whats should i go 1st? Love or career...?

Question

Its make me confuse!

Answer 1

Career first, love in true sense will chase it. In the process you can have both.

Answer 2

Career

Answer 3

My advice is not to go looking for anything first - love doesn't happen like that - why don't you get goind with your career and see who you meet along the way - no need to rush things; you may meet someone in your field or company that has the same interests - love will come along when you least expect it never when you are looking for it so live ur life, do your career and you will meet a nice woman and then she will find it attractive that you are career minded and goal orientated - that is always a plus. When you are fulfilled in your personal and professional life, you always have more to offer someone else because you are complete - and they are there because you want them - not because you need them - because they make you happier and complete your life - but not you - that is important - take care of you first and then one day soon someone will come along and personally, you will be ready for a relationship at that point. Good luck!

Answer 4

Hey, this is an absolute no brainer! Love can come at any time, believe me ....... and at 19 you have an awful lot of 'any time' ahead of you. Careers can also come and go, especially in today's market where we can change several times during a lifetime. But, having said that, your life experience .... job wise, must start now ..... life can be hard, especially financially, and it is important that your life and job skills become honed now to see you through. But love can still blossom alongside and why not ..... but you have to make a fine balance on this one ....... your future is so important, especially if it is going to be for two, so career prospects should always edge in front, especially if you are into buying your home, saving for the future, etc.
The great thing about your question is that you are actively analysing your future! Good luck ......

Answer 5

If both are currently being presented to you, and you know that it's love and not just lust or charm, then my friend, it should always be love.

Love is oftentimes fleeting and yet eternal, so once you have it, you can have it forever.

Love is like a rare soft beast, elusive, beautiful, and desired by everyone in existence.

It is difficult for most to find, and thus they accept other things, such as lust, or even sadly, loneliness.

Once it has been spotted, it is very elusive and must be carefully captured. Be wary, sometimes it will turn on you, and you become the captured.

Once you have love in your possession, you will spend the rest of your life and even perhaps beyond with love. You will hopefully learn how to care for it, how to feed it, and even how to keep it strong and healthy for as long as you have it.

Careers....you can do those as you go along, once you've found and captured love.

Find a career later, or even during, but don't take it in place of true love.

Love as always,

Sebastian

Answer 6

Career - That is what I did and now I am concentrating on love before I start thinking career again. I see people that have chosen the opposite and I think their lives seems rather difficult. Our secretary is 40ish, has two kids and is divorced. She is now going to school and I feel for her in a way. Love is the fun stuff. If you choose love now, you might be one of those miserable soles who have multiple children, begin to go through a mid-life crisis, and later determine that you do not love your wife.
You need the experience to pick the right significant other.

Answer 7

Definitely a career, young lady. Love is there till the end but if you 'f**k up with your carerr at this age, you may regret it. I am more than twice your age so i know what i am talking about having stared with love first, i am not resetting my life back and as a lady you may not survive what i have had to go through over the past few years. A word to the wise, i suppose is enough. All the best!

Answer 8

Follow your heart.
If I was 19 again, I would definitely go for the career. Start it young. Once you are situated in that aspect of your life than go for love.
Love just complicates things and before you know it you will be 29 asking yourself what you are going to do with your life and where you can find a decent partner.

Answer 9

Focus on your career!! I can't stress that enough. I'm only 24....and I wish so much that I could go back and worry about going to college and making a life for myself....I got married at 18 and had 2 kids....and just now finishing my degree, and it's been sooo hard. Do what you can now....love will find you....but don't let it get in the way of your success. Any chick who seriously cares about you will understand, and be proud that she has a man so goal-oriented.

Answer 10

You can have both if you know how to manage them...If you found a girl you love and she loves you, then be with her and she'll support you in making a career. Of course...a career is always on 1st place, but no one has ever said that you can't hit 2 rabbits out of one shot ;)

Answer 11

Focus primarily on your career at this stage. After you are established, you will find the number of women available to you will be much greater. However, it is important to date a few people to learn more about interpersonal relationships, which will be quite important to advancing in your career.

Seriously. I you find someone you truly love, don't you want to be considered quite a catch because you may need to be able to support your love well, and buy many nice things for them to enjoy. Be frugal with your money now, don't let gold-diggers take advantage.

Many good women have difficulty dating poor men, although some take pride in it, be able to provide for yourself and position yourself so that you will be highly desirable as a provider.