I love him so much and he's a doubtful man.despite all tht i loved him and i really dreamt a life with him.He's 41 and i'm 25.Despite all the problem, i was even willing to leave everything and b with him.Next week is our marriage and last night he called me and said i was having affairs.I said No and he kept yelling and shouting to me tht i have other men and my love for him was all fake.I crashed my mobile phone coz of so much painful words coming out frm his mouth n i was breathless last nite and was rushed to the nearby hospital.Now i feel i want him back and i called him and he still saying I was FUC**** with other men and i didn't go to hosp.I feel pain. I love him so much at the same time i dont like his hurts and worst of all, marriage is next week and he says he dumps me.What m I to do?I did not do anything behind his back and he keps linking me with other men.Please, I cant forget him but everything is so painful.I am bleeding due to stress
2006-08-04 20:24:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anisha81 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
He knows that you did not cheat on him. He just used that as an excuse to break up with you because he does not want to get married. He seems like an ******. It hurts when someone breaks up with you. As time goes on, you will feel better. Even if you speak with this guy again, the relationship will not be normal. Get out an do some things. Keep yourself busy and eventually this sad feeling will go away. Do something to turn this negative experience into something positive.
2006-08-04 20:37:04 · answer #1 · answered by Cas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it's painful, the horrid truth is probably that, for unknown reasons, he doesn't want to be with you, and he is a coward so he doesn't explain himself but tries to blame it on you so he loks like the good guy. If you can bear it, ask him why he thinks that, and try to calmly point out why his reasons are wrong. Tell him gently that you love him but you can't be with a man who doesn't trust you for no reason. If that doesn't bring him around then the truth is probably nohing will and you should let him go. Don;t worry, you are young and beautiful and will have no trouble finding a better partner in the future. He is old and fat (if he's not he will be soon) and will never find someone as good as you, if he doesn't know that at least you do.
Hope this helps.
2006-08-05 03:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jigga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to calm down honey. He is trying to get out of marrying you by accusing you of all this stuff. this way he does not hurt his ego with the other guys he knows okay.
You have got to get ahold of yourself girl. no man is worth all this and the marriage is next week let him call it off and cancel everything and tell everyone. You are not at fault and he is.
If you have done nothing wrong, then it is something he will see sooner or later, but do not take the bastard back do you understand. he will only hurt you again later on and you will be innocent then to.
be greatful he is doing this now and not after you marrried the jerk. you are free of his abuse early and not later. early is the best one,
2006-08-05 03:32:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not trust you now a week before your wedding then he is not gonna trust you after the wedding either. Trust is a huge part of a marriage. You are young and deserve someone who is gonna trust you and love you for who you are and who is gonna treat you with respect. This guy is not doing any of that with his choice of actions. I say forget about him and move on for your own happiness.
Good luck!!
2006-08-05 03:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by bigred84022 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from my past expriences, if he is accusing you of things you are not doing, and the stress is causing you to bleed, let it go. Move on and finder bigger and better things. Stress leads to death early and for someone to be so stressed that they are going to end up taking part of their own lifetime away over a person, the best thing to do is to move on and save yourself the heartache and pain.
2006-08-05 03:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by donovan49_e71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel he is no more interested in you and blaming so he can get rid of you. Don't go for such a doubtful person. you may have problems in marital life
2006-08-05 03:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by zain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he really worth all this pain?
2006-08-05 03:28:52 · answer #7 · answered by dosey-rosey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY AWAY FROM HIM HE SOUNDS LIKE DANGER, NOT TO MENTION YOU HAVE ESTEEM ISSUES. YOU WILL MARRY HIM. I AM SURE BOTH OF YOU HAVE OTHER MARRIAGES UNDER YOUR BELT. PLEASE DO NOT MAKE SAME MISTAKES OVER AND OVER.
2006-08-05 03:43:09 · answer #8 · answered by brxny2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him, he's not worth it if he doesn't trust you.
2006-08-05 03:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by ButterflyAngel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋