ok. heres the story. i went out w/ this guy, he dumped me, i cried 4 soooo long i was hysterical. really thought i was in luv. balled, slit my wrists which i've never done over a guy b4. he still talked 2 me like we did b4 "i luv u, i'd do ne thing 4 u, lets go 2 the movies friday,stop ur giving me a *****"(lmao) everything was the same, so i wasnt as sad. he said we could b "friends w/ benifits" then one day, my cousin who is 11 talked 2 him on the phone (hes 14) she started liking him!!!! finally she told me, and of course, i told him. turns out he started liking her back then! o cried sooooo bad!!!! she swore 2 god and on her life and our cousinship she wouldnt go out w/ him cuz she knew i still had feelings 4 him. he asked her out, and of course she said yes.cry cry cry,slit slit slit, yea everything the same.horrible.he told me i was hotter than her a couple days ago, but he still "luvs" her.they think they're in luv,, but i still like him!can i make him like me?!
2006-08-04 20:09:57 · 16 answers · asked by Krista H. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p.s
i have a bf.....but we met over the internet about a year ago. we've been going out 4 a while, and he is soooo sweet!! hes always saying we'll b 2gether 4ever, hes in luv w/ me,how beautiful i am,hes perfect.but he lives in cali, and im right above him.btw, did i mention he was a famous actor???yea....(im not saying who. u wont help me and wont believe me either lol) and i kno hes not a fake!!! i talked 2 him on the phone, ok!? lol i think im in luv w/ him, but i also like brandon. if i could actually c dylan, (my bf) it wouldnt b as hard, but brandon,(ex bf) i can actually kiss and hold in my arms. plz help me. i feel so crushed inside! :(
2006-08-04 20:12:51 · update #1
Why would you want a guy who likes to jump between cousins.. Do you know how many guys there are out there who are probably waiting for you to notice them..Don't waste your time! Your young life is great right now.. Go have fun! Leave the guy for your cousin.. You'l laugh about it with her later, when he's out of both of your lives. Take care and good luck..
2006-08-04 20:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just had your first heartbreak. Yep, it really hurts. But you can get through it. Try not to think so much about this bf. Do things with the girls for a while, let your heart mend a little. Think about things like what you;d like to do with your life. Dr. Laura has a book -don;t remember the title, but it;s ten things something in a guy and girl version. You could find it at the library or book store. Might be some good tips on protecting your heart. Hang in there!
2006-08-05 03:26:38 · answer #2 · answered by sand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good heavens, girl, stop the freaking drama. You're slitting your wrists over a 14 year old BOY?
Look, you can't make anyone like you. It either happens or it doesn't. But you are clearly in no position to be dealing with the emotional hazards of dating. Grow up first, you'll save yourself an enormous amount of pain and suffering.
2006-08-05 03:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't make anyone like you - unfortunatley. And I have to say it - please don;t try and kill yourself over a relationship - ever - but especially not when you're so young. With the kind of imature guy he sounds like, I'd try to make him jealous. Dress up, go get a guy - even just a guy friend - and suss out from your cousin where they're going (movies tc) rock up and sit near them, pretend not to see them, and do things like lean into your date, whisper in his ear, giggle at everything he says. This may knock some sense back into the guy, and he may decide he wants you back for real. If not, don't hold out for him, because he will jsut play you along, and you will waste your youth and bauty waiting for someone who doesn't feel the same.
He'll regret it one day.
Hope this helps.
2006-08-05 03:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jigga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i so have been in this position hunny no man should ever get you to slit your wrists and i'm sure your bf don't like you doing that to yourself just try hard to forget brandon you have someone and it's ok to still love him and be hurt but don't harm yourself. and your boyfriend is an actor he can come see you and you can hold and whatever you want to do and plus you shouldn't be having sex this young i did and now i have a beautiful baby boy but i'm young and he has put a major limit on the things i wanted to do but please remember NO BOY is worth you hurting yourself over ok
i wish you the best sweetie
2006-08-05 03:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by spida_kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DID WHAT 2 YOUR WRIST, OVER A GUY?...SORRY BUT THAT WAS DUMB ..NO JOKE... NO GUY OR GAL IS EVER ..........AND I MEAN EVER WORTH LOSING U LIFE OVER.....YOU KIDS NOW A DAYS THINK U R IN LOVE FROM THE MOMENT U LOOK AT EACH OTHER.......... AND ITS ONLY AN ILLUSION...DON'T LET ANYONE HAVE THAT KIND OF POWER OVER U...IF HE FELL IN "LUV" WITH HER THAT SOON......... AND HE SAYS HE STILL" LUVS" U THEN HE IS DEFINITELY NO GOOD 4 EITHER OF YA.....AS FAR AS THE BOY ON LINE DON'T BELIEVE HIM YOU SOUND LIKE YOU HAVE LET HIM KNOW THAT U R A CHILD & HE IS PROBLEY A PERV...YES U HAVE TALKED 2 SOMEONE BUT I DOUBT IT WAS A FAMOUS SOMEONE...SORRY BUT I AM ALMOST SURE THAT HE IS YANKING U CHAIN !!!!!!!
2006-08-05 03:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by meemeemee40 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK probably still to young to be in love and you should never cut your self over a guy or over any thing for that matter.....um and you should tell your cousin that blood is thicker than water and she should have never done that..
2006-08-05 03:15:55 · answer #7 · answered by love2rock_101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People that try to commit suicide and fail are useless. The human body is frail, if you truly tried to kill yourself and weren't just trying to get attention.. well either way you are a complete waste of sperm and egg.
2006-08-05 03:14:32 · answer #8 · answered by Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, what are you fourteen?? all it is is that teen drama. just get over it, it's not the end of the world. it's not like you were actually in love (you can't be in love when you're only 14).
2006-08-05 03:15:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO SEEK SOME COUNSELING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
For real. Slitting your wrists. Are you f u c k i n g kidding me???? NO MAN or ANYONE for that matter is worth that s h i t. Honey, for real, you need help. But get it after you kick your cousins ***. And, let him go. For real. If he went for your cousin regardless of the situation!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You have the rest of your life ahead of you. And i promise you, you will get your heart broken a million and one more times. I PROMISE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Please look into some counseling. Confide in a parent, a friend, and adult. Anyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Just talk to someone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-05 03:17:31 · answer #10 · answered by Mystery Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋