she has a kid and she told me that they were never married with the guy,so she travelled outside the country to buy something and the place she went to is the same place where the guy who got her pragenent stays so she hadnt phoned me in the past 2 days so i phoned her house to get a number were i can call to find out if she travelled well, i called the brother and he told me that the number i can phone belongs to the guy who got her pragenent because he doesnt know whats realy happening between me and her,and also we both have each others passwords to chech our mails coz at times one is busy and cant chek mail so the other will check and pass the massage,so as iam checking mail i find that she is dating someone else and that she has a different address that this guy use.all this she doesnt know that i have discovered and she hasnt even called me.what do i do?iam confused and very much in pain.please i need serious people to help me.
2006-08-04 19:56:27 · 11 answers · asked by peedy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be a man and be a strong man, you're acting very silly and I am only telling you this shake you up a bit. This woman doesn't give a sh*t about you, you might think you love her but I think you find her so sexy and sweet and this is your weakness towards her, you're blinded by your lust and that is forbidding you from seeing clearly that she is using you and abusing your kind heart. If she is seeing two other guys that makes it three guys including you, and that means she can see a hundred guys if she could, is that what you want? to be a statistic? Come on man open your eyes and see the true woman she is. I know you will hurt and miss her but leave her alone and look for a descent woman worthy of your kind heart. She is stepping all over your emotions and your sweet heart, dump her, be strong and stay away from her, remove her from your system NOW.
2006-08-04 20:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by rabb b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty simple! You gotta leave and never talk to her again, even when she's beggin you to come back in a few weeks(and she will). Beware though if you go back she will eventually cheat on you again. Once a whore always a whore. Sorry to be so blunt but thats what you need now.
2006-08-04 20:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by uscmedguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a participant, and does not understand a thank you to pass extreme relationships, so he grew to become into leaving it as much as you. He needed you to make a pass on the mall, to act like the girl he needed to be "better than friends" with, yet quite there grew to become into awkwardness. The remark approximately being rejected? Yeah, he thinks which ability you probably did not desire to be with him after all. His loss of verbal substitute regardless of if ability that he did not desire to be with you the two, and yet he acted that way. it is unusual, yet he did desire to be with you, he in basic terms did not understand the thank you to be with you. He theory you probably didn't want him and it is the reason he deleted his selection. Now, you're left hurting and he's left questioning what went incorrect. in case you nevertheless do like him, you could desire to consult with him approximately it. talk what he needs, the way you the two experience, and make certain what "this," your dating, is. undergo in techniques inspite of the incontrovertible fact that, he's a participant. He could have in basic terms replaced his techniques.
2016-11-03 22:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for what I'm going to tell you but girls like her don't need you to get upset over, I know you really love her but girls like her you can find anywhere. I'm sorry but she was just playing with you. watch she'll end up coming back to you when her and that guy get in to a fight or she needs something from you. this is just something for you to think about. HOPE THIS ADVISE WELL REALLY HELP YOU OUT. p.s. try to be strong don't take her back.
2006-08-04 20:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by chiquita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to calm down and just relax. I know it is probably the hardest thing to do in this situation but just think about all the good things you have in your life. Don't do anything you'll regret and you must confront her sometime soon. im very sorry to hear this
2006-08-04 20:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by whoa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's got you whipped. That's a serious answer. If you ever get to see her take off her underwear, it'll be so she can drop a nice steamer right on your face.
2006-08-04 20:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by spacedog1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in same similar situation it hurts when u come to relise about a person whom u luv is with someone else i can understand but what stops u from going to someone else.u r also very important she does not deserve u atall my husband has left me for someone else he still comes to me i luv him too so i accepted this other women but it hurts like hell i cant think of anything else wat to do ,it life we always run after others.
2006-08-04 20:06:36 · answer #7 · answered by mini l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET HER GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! For real. I've cheated once, I've cheated twice and continue to cheat. I don't do it intentionally, I don't know what my problem is. My point is...................she won't change!!!She really screwed the pooch on this one. She probably thought that you would never find out.
It sucks because you love her and I am sure that your heart is breaking. For your own sanity give her a chance to explain and then go from there.
2006-08-04 20:03:51 · answer #8 · answered by Mystery Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love someone who is fuc*ing two different guys? Man you're sick.
2006-08-04 20:01:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her... no point in continuing.... in future she might leave u as well.... so better u leave her first
2006-08-04 20:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by hell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋