We were mailing back and forth and just recently he stopped emailing me. Even now when I sign into my messenger he puts busy. Is he avoinding me?
2006-08-04 19:55:05 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
either hes not getting your messages, or hes ingnoring you. simple. guys hate neediness, let him come to you
2006-08-04 19:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is a very rude person and I would say he is avoiding you. Some guys like the chase and then when they get you, the thrill is gone. Not all guys are like this, in fact, most aren't. This can also backfire on them. What would happen if you sent him an IM and told him you were deleting him from messenger and your email address book because you just have too many names and it was nice talking to him, but you feel it is time to move on? if you get no response, which I suspect will happen, at least you will be taking the high road and it will drive him nuts. he will think you are giving him the brushoff and it might even make you feel better.
Good luck with this.
2006-08-04 20:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by historybug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may simply be having a classic attack of male avoidence of intimacey. and so he may either just want some time to himself. or he is not well, or he really is busy and has not had time to answer your emails.
in messenger you can send offline messages. so send a message while he is busy see if he responds to your message after a while. if he responds he is not avoiding you he is just busy. if however he does not respond within a week then the likely hood he is ignoring you. so forget about him.
I don't know you but i'm sure you can do better.
when was the last email you sent him? if under a week then give him upto a week to respond.
however he could simply have got bored with the relationship and has moved on to someone new.
so whatever you decide to do, he is not thinking of you.
2006-08-04 20:09:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either that or he could really be busy. Some ppl's life picks up. And don't worry I have some ppl on my list that put that up when I'm on or even when I'm talking to them they will say brb and it'll be like 5 hours later they come back and be all "I didn't realize, I left this thing on". Its annoying to no end. And does kinda make me feel like i'm boring or someone to be avoided. But think about it though, i'm sure there are some ppl you do the same thing too. And when hes on you should just put up busy too. See if he leaves any offlines or anything.
2006-08-04 20:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would by default give the benefit of the doubt and assume that his e-mail is not working. However, if he shows up on-line using an IM programme, then I would suspect that he is avoiding you for some reason. I might recommend sending message over IM to him on a periodic basis (not too often as that might be perceived as rude) and hope that he responds with a definite answer. I wish you luck on this.
2006-08-04 20:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by Ѕємι~Мαđ ŠçїєŋŧιѕТ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. He's avoiding you. Quit emailing or trying to IM him. Just move on. There are a ton of great guys out there...don't waste anymore time on this guy.
And you may find he's become more interested after you stop the chasing. You'd be surprised how many times I've seen that happen.
2006-08-04 19:59:32 · answer #6 · answered by Bob S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not have access to the computer for some reason or it may be malfunctioning. He could be temporarily out of his office and/OR someone else may be using his computer. If it is none of the above and you are signing into your messenger, then he knows it is you and he IS avoiding you. Try giving him a telephone call and find out what is really going on, if it matters enough to you.
2006-08-04 20:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone else is recieving his attention... It happens especially with e-mail and chatting... Yes, he is avoiding you for now. But if you want to wait go ahead... Needless to say there are plenty other guys out there that would 'race" to have a chance to e-mail or chat with you... Why not test the waters... Take care and good luck..
2006-08-04 20:01:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a great chance that he is avoiding you. Maybe there's something that you did that made him act that way. Regardless, don't waste your time with that guy. If he doesn't like for the way that you are, then he's no good for you. You're better off with the guys from webdate__dot__com! I met a guy there, and he really appreciates me for what I am! Try it out!
2006-08-04 20:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by Diamanta C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look back. . . what have you done or said. . . were you too persistent. . . he might need space. at least he doesnot block you yet. So.. . . you've done your part. . . you've thrown the ball into his court. If he still wants to mend the relationship its up to him. Stop emailing him. Dont sell yourself short.. by being too available and "stalking him". Let be,. . . he is not worth. . . all the trouble if he does not see whats your worth. Move on.
2006-08-04 20:04:53 · answer #10 · answered by mich 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be busy or avoiding you. You should wait and leave him alone. See if he responds to your emails eventually and don't appear to desperate. Men are like rubber bands, if they like you and you give them some space, they'll bounce right back.
2006-08-04 20:06:07 · answer #11 · answered by LNZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋