Hi friends i wld really appreciate your feelings the way u define true love?

Question

let me see how many of us have the same mentality abt true love.

Answer 1

let's see if you can come up with my oppinion
I start with my concept of a soulmate :

a soulmate is somebody whom you love completely and totaly. somebody who you want to spend the rest of your life with. somebody who you view as perfect. they are your other half, as it were.
the odd thing about soulmates is that they are sometimes from different countries, different languages, cultures, races, sometimes they force you to rethink your life.
they might even be the same gender as you.
your soulmate will always be there for you
and they make you happy and try to help you
no matter what. they feel the same way about you, at least on some level
I've found her.
but my concept of how to look for a perfect person is this:
what I look for in a girl is:
self confidence and grace
kindness, caring, love,
honesty, openness, trust
empathy, sympathy, willingness to listen and tell,
a sense of self worth and of inner beauty,
something that shines from within them.

I don't care much about race.
I've been raised in a way that I can't.
nobody in my family is of the same race.

I don't care about religion...
it is a nice thing to have in common,
but it isn't everything
love is more important.

I don't care about height or weight or the color of their hair
such things go only skin deep, and what lies under their skin, is far more important.

I don't care about wealth,
though wealth dictates who I will meet
and where I will go,
that is the only sense through which it effects my judgment

I don't care about age.
age is a number.
maturity is what counts.

sexuality is undeniably important in the sustain of a long term adult relationship, however it should not be the main reason a relationship forms or breaks.
such things can change.
other things cannot.

in other words, I care about character
but not about props.

I care about the heart
but not the skin

the only other thing I want, is
her to love me back.

on love I say this:

why do you want to know?
my practical guide to being in love is below
how do you feel?
all warm and fuzzy on the inside?
like you want to be pressed up against her?
that's a manifestation of love
like you want to be with her forever?
and no matter how she changes, or where she goes, you want to go with her? that's love
and you don't care if he looses both her arms, and both her legs an eye, and... lower regions... in a car accident, you'd still love her?
that's really love then. not just infatuation!


about unconditional love:
I say this:
I am a christian,
unconditional love towards all persons is the basis of my religions.
so yes. I love unconditionally.
I'd have to get to know the person first.
but
assuming you're christian:
that's the way god made you, and there ain't nothing you can do about it
if you aren't/ you, like me, aren't a creationist then:
you really can't help the way you are, it's all your parents' fault anyway!

so yes, I support unconditional love.
and I love unconditionally.

as for the emotions behind it.
love is a wonderful and very basic emotion.
it is present in every human. love is very closely tied in with the concept of pleasure.
in human anatomy, there is a part of the brain called the pleasure circuit, this is a chain which causes the sensation we call pleasure.
loving people unconditionally is pleasurable so. yes. I do it and so should you!


and love in my present relationship:
this:
she and I are... well very different, but I love her all the more for it. it is very hard to describe in words my feelings for her, but I shall have a go at it, though I am certian that far too much will be lost.

I once wrote her a poem
what I wanted from her:
her name has been removed to preserve her privacy.

_______
you to have
you to hold
you to love
you as my friend
forever.
no matter
what you
think
say
do
how you
look
or
speak
I'll still love you
it's you I love
and you I want
to have
to hold
forever
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it's hard to explain but I hope the poem helps

love
is a very complex emotion and very primal
be careful
and kind
cautious
and true
and make sure
you don't hurt anybody
while you're at it
because those wounds may never heal.

on not having sex...

I'm dating a virgin right now...
and she'll stay that way untill she decides otherwise!
that's the way it ought to work.

yes. very much so. they have good sense...
heck I'm a virgin too...

sex should not be the most important factor in deciding a relationship. so therefore it shouldn't matter.
what should matter is that the two people love each other.
little else is important.

age for love.
and when youu can feel it:

yes.
it is absolutely fine.
it is entirely normal and you probably are.
now then how do you feel when you're with him?
all warm and fuzzy on the inside?
like you want to be pressed up against him?
that's a manifestation of love
like you want to be with him forever?
and no matter how he changes, or where he goes, you want to go with him? that's love
and you don't care if he looses both his arms, and both his legs an eye, and his penis in a car accident, you'd still love him?
that's really love then. not just infatuation!
happy thinking

Source(s):
I'm in love with this girl...
I'm a guy and I'm bloody 15!
if you want to hear about it contact me...

now then, my evidence to answer your question, is that humans are designed, as a species to choose a mate between 13-18 yrs. of age, we don't all do it, and it's different for some people, but that's the basic concept.
look at any other country that's "less well developed" you will find that the average age for marriage for women is like 13!

and if you look at your great grandparents, how old were they when they had their first child?
think about it!

and after you tell her you love her:
kiss her!


when to have sex:

when you feel ready,
when your partner feels ready
when it just feels *right*


peace and love.

Answer 2

a best friend, compassion, total commit, workout all problems before you go to bed. Then go to sleep in love and wake up in love. can not stop thinking about that person. You both are each others day, night, and every minute in between. Even if you are somewhere else. Surprises, moments, many words of love. You know in your heart when you take that final dance. That you will still love that person and they will always love you. But one of the most important things in true love is God. Because God is love and without him. there is no way its completely true. Because true love is every sequence of love.

Answer 3

True love is unselfish, it is putting the other person's feelings ahead of your own. It is always trying to see that person in the best light and pretend not to see the ugly bits (unless of course the ugly bits are dangerous to you - then run away.)

True love is charity - really what it boils down to for me - is the ability or desire to see and understand and love another person the same way God does.

Answer 4

Well I have answered this question before and I will again....
To me true love is someone you feel mind, body, and soul!!
The person that you would give your life for without even Thinking!!!

Answer 5

I don't think that true love can be defined. But, if I had to say anything about it, it would be.....
Someone whom without you could not imagine living your life. Someone who completes you mind, body and soul.

Answer 6

True love is when you yearn to see that person everytime he/she is not around. True love means that you wanna share all your happiness and sadness with him/her. True love means commitment. True love means when you can have good communication with that someone without hesitation. True love is someone whom you can treat as your best friends, your family, your teacher, and your love.

Answer 7

I define "true love" as being when you care more about the happiness and well-being of another than you do yourself. When you want them to be happy, content, and well taken care of...even if its to your detriment.

Answer 8

for me I would have to say..........

first person I think about in the moring..
when i look at my cell phone i look to see if he has called yet?
i get butterflies everytime I know i am going to see him..
I wait up hours thru the night hoping to see him before his shift ends....(cuz then he goes home and to bed) when he get the chance he ALWAYS stops in to see me...
when there is a smile on my face first thing in the moring cuz he has done yet another special thing for me..
when i can sit next to him and enjoy just staring at him
no radio or television to keep us entertained.... we entertain each other thru conversation..
should i keep going?

Answer 9

knowing at the end of the day you are going to be with the one you love and respect.

Answer 10

love is never having to say goodbye, take out the trash, pick up behind yourself, pick up your own dry cleaning, take a shower you stink, and my favorite, what was that woman doing in my car?