My fiance and I have called it quits after four years of engagement. We tried remaining friends, but I found out that his friendship is very traitorous.
Even though I was smart and left the situation, I am very hurt because I still would have helped him out of a situation if need be, but I recently found out that he doesn't feel the need to follow suit. So, I broke off the friendship.
I had already done a spell to release my emotional bonds with the romantic relationship we had, which, I'm happy to report, was very successful: I lovingly buried roses he had given me that I had previously dried. A few positive and releasing sentiments were said after each rose was put into the groud.
However, I'm stuck as to what I should do to help release my emotional bonds from our friendship.
What meditations, spells, or rituals would my Wiccan bothers and sisters recommend?
2006-08-04 19:09:12 · 8 answers · asked by Joa5 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
When I read your question, the first thing that popped into my mind was my husband and my handfasting cord.
So my suggestion would be some kind of knot magic. Perhaps tying a knot in a cord for each hope that you had of a friendship (or more) with this person. Putting your emotional bonds into the bonds of the cord. I would then ritually untie them releasing them and burning the rope, but what you would want to do with the cord is personal---I am sure you would have an idea as to what would be right for you. Losing a friend is so difficult. You have my best wishes for a new beginning.
2006-08-04 19:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by Witchy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, not Wiccan, but honey, this question crosses the boundaries of faith. Whatever rituals you have that affirm you and your worth, do 'em. Make yourself the priority in your life again and stop living for the validation of another. Yes, there will be pain. It will pass. Time will leave you wiser, which is a bittersweet blessing. Blessed be.
2006-08-05 02:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by personal.pastor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a piece of rose quartz, cleanse it and charge it in a window, light a pink candle with rose scent , tie a knot in a length of pink satin ribbon ,stare at the quartz, visualize it opening, now mentally put all of your feelings for him, and the sense of loss into the stone. as soon after that as possible throw it in moving water, a river or creek. now cut the knot in the ribbon in two with sissors and bury the ribbon as you must bury your feelings . Blessed Be my friend. oh , do this after a full moon and before the new moon, at the dark of the moon phase.
2006-08-05 02:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are asking for is a way to "release my emotional bonds from our friendship." The bonds of friendship: what are they? Are you sure you want release from them?
If you know this for certain, then a ritual might be to cut his name from your address book and burn it. Take anything that he gave you before the romance began, perhaps a book or a picture, and burn them, too. Say words to the effect that you want your life to be free of him as it was before you met.
Again, I want to ask you to be sure that you will never want his friendship again before you do this.
2006-08-05 02:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by lottyjoy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, your relationship does not have a concrete FOUNDATION(marriage). Both lack COMMITMENT and WILL to stay togaed. your relationship is weakly knitted. it does not have the BLESSINGS of GOD. Just ROMANTIC Love is not the REAL LOVE. Love demands SACRIFICE,and strong commitment. Feelings will come and GO. We Can not build a CASTLE on temporary feelings. It will DRY up very fast.
Do not break the relationship with him, if he still maintains his PURITY(fidelity). 99.99% of problems between husband and wife can be solved between them only.
You take initiation and talk to him. find the motives behind his actions,
further details you can mail me , I can help you with out harming you.
2006-08-05 02:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Form your circle, center yourself,, burn some incense let the negative energy flow out to the universe. Allow the good energy to flow through you,, close your circle,,,,
Then go out and party like a mutha because nothing cures a broken heart like a hot steamy affair.
2006-08-05 02:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by landerscott 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do stuff with other people this weekend. The best cure for losing friends is finding/making/playing with new ones. This is Lughnasa weekend. Go dance!
2006-08-05 02:22:56 · answer #7 · answered by Babs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
barnes and nobles/best wishes/
live long and prosper
2006-08-05 02:14:49 · answer #8 · answered by BluesGuitarFan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋