im sad...................... i love a girl but theres no way we can be together right now, and im seriously in love with her, i would do ANYTHING just to make her smile, but b/c of a billion differant reasons we cant be together right now even tho we both really love each other *sighs* , and i just feel really crummy that i cant date her b/c im in freaking love! its just so complicated and all i really know right now is that i love her, is that enough to get me thru these trying times?
2006-08-04 18:54:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes if your love is true...you can surely get through with your trying times...take it as a challenge..and if it's worth waiting..then wait until you both are free to get together...
2006-08-04 19:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by chona a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will seem like it's still worth it up to a few years after it's over. But then if you're still hurting and thinking about her you'll wish you never met her. Thing is, if you never met her, you'd just end up meeting somebody else and going through the same emotional experience. And if you were to see each other everyday then the love would "mature" and not feel so intense. So enjoy the rush of the emotion, but try not to let the separation get you down.
2006-08-05 02:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by JB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one reason you cannot be with her. She is not into you. Maybe she has given you a billion different reasons why she cannot date you now. She is trying to give you a hint. I sympathize with how you feel, but the 'trying times' aren't going away until you let go of your obsession with her. If she felt the same way, wouldn't she do whatever it took like you would to be with her? Loving someone is never a reason (read: cause); it is merely an effect another person has on you.
2006-08-05 02:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by dfhggd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes love endures all, sometimes love is not enough. Honestly.............if you honestly love her it is sooooooooooo worth it. Yes, it hurts and it sucks, but if you both can get through this difficult time it will strengthen your relationship. Relationships are difficult. It is not always peaches and cream. Hang in there. There will be good times as well as bad, happy times as well as sad. If you love each other things will work themselves out. Be patient. And if for some reason things don;t work out think about how much your life has changed because you had loved.
It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.
Good luck, sweetie.
2006-08-05 02:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mystery Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is yes. My wife is currently far away where we can't be together and there she will stay for at least 4 more months for Government reasons. I feel heartache and pain every day we're apart, and can't even go see her until they reunite us near Thanksgiving. All I can say is be strong and try to stray from temptation. Get a picture of her and put it in a place of honor so you can be reminded of what you're waiting for. Love will prevail!
2006-08-05 02:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know really. I'm in the very same boat. Which really sucks. All I can tell you is try to keep your head up. It's tough, but you're stronger than you give yourself credit for. It's hard to love and to be loved, especially if you can't be together for whatever reason. If you need anyone to talk to, email me at harmonious_Mouse@yahoo.com
2006-08-05 01:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by Monique Andrea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really sad..I have been in your shoe before so I know how it feels when you hurt the person you love deeply and she feels very upset.Some good suggestion to get her back is maybe bringing her out for dinner and talking things out and how you ought not have said that,or buy her chocolates and apologise...or the final resort...kiss her and tell her you really love her.
2006-08-05 02:02:28 · answer #7 · answered by Remus L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truely love each other and have to wait for whatever reason then waiting won't be a problem. Yes I believe true love can conquer all.
2006-08-05 02:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by fourangels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say that you cant be together right now? so maybe you guys will be able to be together in the future? i had a time like this, and it hurt so bad. but i hung out with him as friends and it was fun. but yea it hurt. just know that everything happens for a reason. and if your meant to be together, youll get there.
2006-08-05 02:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by krazikutie16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU REALLY LOVE THIS GIRL,THEN LOVE WILL FIND A
WAY. BUT IT SOUND LIKE THERE SOME ISSUES WITH YOU
AND HER, AND UNLESS THINGS CAN WORKS IT SELF OUT
THEN MAYBE YOU NEED TO MOVE ON, SORRY TO SAY IT
LIKE THAT, BUT IF YOU CANT BE TOGETHER, THEN THE
MORE YOU LOVE THIS GIRL MORE YOU WILL HURT, AND
LOVE NOT SUPPOSE TO HURT, NOT AT ALL.
2006-08-05 02:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋