I'm eleven and i like plan things for the futer.Like i plan what kind of house and job and husband i want.I plan what i want my kids to act like and what i kind of think they'll look like.I also plan like what i am going to do at each age and when i'll get married and when i'll have a baby.Is this wierd?No stupid answers please!!!!
2006-08-04 18:40:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
It is not weird to plan out your life. In fact it is really smart and not all adults plan as carefully as you do from the sounds of it. I did want to give you a few words of advise. I am a big planner type person too. Through my life a lot of what I planned has happened, but a lot of what I planned didn't happen. I also learned that sometimes you miss things in life if it isn't part of your plan, and sometimes things just happen planned or not. I learned that everything happens for a reason and sometimes you just have to learn to roll with the punches. Life is going to happen whether you planned for it or not. Good Luck!
2006-08-05 14:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by angelsforanimals 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not weird it is normal, when i was your age i did the same. i wanted to be a nurse and be married when i turned 27 then have babies.
it is very good to have a plan, but in all honesty you are young and you will probably change your future a few times and that is very normal too. so dont get discouraged when it dont go exactly the way you had it planned. everyone wants the best for themselves. you can be whatever you want to be when you grow up. but i would wait on planning your whole future now and just plan what you can do now, and have lots of fun doing it.
2006-08-05 09:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by kag6667 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not wierd at all. Planning for the future is good as long as you don't believe that i can't change. Things come up and things change so your plan may not work out after all. Don't get caught up in stressing out about the future either. Have a good time now and enjoy your childhood.
2006-08-05 15:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush, you're only 11, enjoy being young. Becoming an adult means tons of responsibility. I wish I hadn't been in such a hurry to grow up. It'll happen.
I think it's great you want to plan for your future but I wouldn't worry about it too much right now. Go through school plan your career then go from there Good luck
2006-08-05 12:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by christina s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not weird, I think to an extent we all do this. But just remember that life is unexpected, and alot of times things turn out the opposite of what you had planned. This is what makes life fun and exciting, so don't worry if things don't go exactly the way you thought. Good luck w/ your future!
2006-08-05 03:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsay M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this isn't a weird thing to do. It just shows that you are thinking about your future and you would like things to be. You do realize of course that life doesn't always happen the way we plan it. It just happens. It's geat that you have these wonderful ideas and that you are planning to make a life for yourself. Keep up the good work, and always do your best.
2006-08-05 01:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by G.D.Bradberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not weird. I think us girls just always somehow plan ahead like that. Don't stop being an eleven year old though! Nothing ever happens the way you plan it anyway so just keep those plans as guidelines and let nature takes it's course.
2006-08-05 01:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not weird at all. Do your planning right and write it down. I found an old journal of mine that I wrote when i was 13. It's nice to see what you envisioned when you're young. A lot of things happened the way I planned (Education, Career and Family) others didn't (Health, # of children, where I live) but it was nice to see what I was dreaming of and what came true.
2006-08-05 03:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by barbara w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not weird at all.. you sound very bright... just keep in mind though that life doesnt always go to plan.... good luck for you future although im sure you wont need it
2006-08-05 06:03:51 · answer #9 · answered by LUCY T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of girls do this. It wont turn out like you planned though..things never do.
2006-08-05 09:17:43 · answer #10 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋