If me & my boyfriend always agrue, but we promise each other we won't leave each other & we wanna spend the rest of our lifes together. The other night I said "I love you" and he said it back, but then we started arguing & I said "well I won't ever say it again" & then last night I said " I love you" & he didn't say it, because he said "you wasn't going to say it anymore" What do I do? What should I say to him about it? Cuz all we do is argue & I mean we argue over the little stuff. I need some help.
2006-08-04 18:29:28 · 8 answers · asked by Peaches06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him what he feels! Giv it all u got 2 stay 2gether!
2006-08-04 18:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you two are really fighting this much maybe you should ask yourself why? Usually relationships that argue that much dont last. There is some deep seeded issue than you need to bring to light and then maybe you can have a happy relationship. Also it would help that when you start to get mad you walk away and take some time to think things over so you wont be forced to say things you dont mean and will have to apologize for later. Be the bigger person and walk away till you have had time to cool down, your relationship will be much better because of this. Good luck
2006-08-05 01:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by scorpio2644865 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is key. Maybe you should refrain from saying "I love you" if you don't mean it. Don't say it for the sake of saying. Say it because you feel it. If the person you tell "I love you" doesnt respond back, then don't take it personally. They are not saying it because they don't feel like it - don't force them to say it back to you. As for the arguing, if you don't communicate now, it will never get better. If you guys still don't understand each other no matter how much you try, then maybe it's time to let go and move on.
2006-08-05 01:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by kray_z_blu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring it up to him that you hate when you guys argue and at all costs avoid playing the blame game with him...tell him the truth that you do love him and you will do anything to stay with him but if this is going to continue then youll need to break it off! be 100% honest with him and if he can't handle it then youre not gunna want to spend the rest of your life (arguing) with him...and thats when you need to tell him goodbye...i hope it all works out!!
2006-08-05 01:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by Nora n Kt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y would u guys argue?
2006-08-05 01:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by kayla l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOTH OF YOU NEED TO REALLY START TO TALK TO
EACH OTHER ABOUT WHAT REALLY GOING ON, THE FACT
THAT YOU ARGUE ALL THE TIME THAT NOT GOOD, SOMETHING IS GOING ON AND YOU NEED TO FIND OUT
WHAT GOING ON, OTHER WISE I DONT SEE THIS HAPPY
EVERY AFTER DO YOU.
2006-08-05 01:46:37 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that the moment you said that it was a moment of anger, you are acting like a married couple and you are just bf and gf
2006-08-05 01:34:16 · answer #7 · answered by ☼♫☆☺♡♥☺☆♫☼ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to communticate more. talk about why your arguing. and try to talk things out.
2006-08-05 01:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋