2006-08-04 18:12:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Belle,
Realize that he is immature and hasn't fully resolved himself to the fact that he is dating you. He either isn't comfortable with dating in general or hasn't fully accepted you. This is somewhat normal for teenage boys, but if he's in his 20s then he has problems. Go easy on him and ease him into his role but if he doesn't change then get out. He isn't worth it.
2006-08-04 18:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, understand I am not being mean okay. But, this man has some problems some of which include he thinks he is to good for you don't accept that you are to good for him. last time I check this was the United States of America where all men are created equal. You need to step back take a good look at him and then yourself. He might be hiding something afraid someone else might find out about you, anyway, it is hard to tell what his problem is but it is not you ask him maybe he is just weird. Girl move on, my mother once told me that if you find a man that is totally in love with you marry him because when he is in love with you whether you know it or not you will be in love with him because he will hang the moon for you. Be brave find your moon hanger.
2006-08-05 01:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by Katrina Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say that you are the kind of person who is affectionate in public, and he is the one on one affectionate type. So, you have to take a look at your whole relationship and say, do we have so much else here? Do we have what it takes to be together? Or are we completely opposite in everything? You want to take a personal inventory of what you like about him and what you don't, and then decide how important is this to you, to your relationship? Some people can live with it, and some others say, I can't, and decide to end the relationship. Good luck! Life sure isn't always easy is it?
2006-08-05 01:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by Laurie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. If he is not willing to let others know he has some attraction to you, but is willing to fondle you in private, he either just wants your ya-ya, or he has some serious hangups about women in general.
The only thing wrong with you is you are still with him. Dump him, find a man who can act the same with you in public as well as private....ok, not dirty but you know what I mean.
2006-08-05 01:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by ibelieveintheconstitution 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shows he is fake.... in my option if the guy can't accept me in front of his buddys and i have to in fron tof mine and push them away the only thing i am losin is time and friends becus ain't no body tryna stay some where there not wanted.... and i kno i wouldn't so i think u need to talk with him about the situation and if it doesn't go how u plann like him understandin u then move on ...best of wishes ~1~real
2006-08-05 01:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
push him away, in all senses of the expression. people who care about each other are more than happy to be seen together in public.
2006-08-05 01:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by dr schmitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably really proper. My boyfrieind always wants to be respectful to the people around us and he is disgusted by the couples who make out in public.
2006-08-05 01:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by sweetundina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then not 2 be mean or nuthing but i think he is probably ashamed of u if he does that, i would most likely break up wit him and find somebody else who wants 2 be close wit u at ALL times and not just SOMETIMES i mean ALL THE TIME
2006-08-05 01:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by pretty baby gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through the same thing when i was younger and every relationship i had like that ended in the guy breaking up with me because of sex. my experience with this means the guy just wants you for sex but i could be wrong. but i think i'm right
2006-08-05 01:16:05 · answer #9 · answered by Blank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the same thing to him. Maybe, he is afraid of public display of affection.
2006-08-05 01:16:28 · answer #10 · answered by dijay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋