Hey i have a really hot step brother that has redish blond hair and the cutest face in the world and he is 16.But he has a girl friend on the internet that is 21.I really like him lot but i dont want him to get hurt if she dumps him.You know shes out partying and stuff and hes not.He doesnt know what this girl looks like and he says that he loves her.I dont know what to do.
2006-08-04 18:01:44 · 6 answers · asked by sweetie girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First of all, this is your step brother that you are talking about, so this whole thing of you thinking that you and him have something or will have something has to exit your mind. He is family! Second, how do you know that this girl is doing anything dishonorable to you brother? Do you know her personally? Your brother's relationship with this girl is, frankly, none of your business. I can respect that you want to look out for your brother, but he has to make his own mistakes or he will never learn.
2006-08-04 18:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by That girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. Take a deep breath and stop caring. Why?
Because she is 21 and he is 16, a minor. She can go to jail if she has a physical relationship with the boy. Besides, if she truly is 21 and trying to attract some 16 year old boy, then she's fat and ugly and once he see's a pic of her (he never will) then he'll stop loving her. He doesn't love her anyways, he just loves the kind of attention she's giving him.
He's probably an idiot (normal for a 16 year old male) and you sound like an idiot too for being attracted to your stepbrother. That is territory you do not step on.
You sound like you're about 12. This is what you do. Tell mommy that you caught your brother talking naughty with a fat girl on the internet that is really a 40 year old guy hiding behind a computer.
That'll make your parents real proud of you and at the same time your brother will appreciate you looking out for his heterosexual interests. (You can ask mommy what that means too)
=)
2006-08-05 01:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by La Voce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he loves her. I believe he doesn't even know what love is yet, but who am I to judge? Just please make sure that this person is absolutely the right person for you first, because if you like this person then you go out with him, and then the both of you can't stand each other latter. Then you are in big trouble, because you live with him.
2006-08-05 01:11:51 · answer #3 · answered by Dragonpack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you will be able to stop the chatting with the 21 year old. Just be there for him if he gets hurt by her.
2006-08-05 12:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you are worried about him. and honey, a 16 yr old and A 21 year old is kind of scary tell him to end it before something bad happens
2006-08-05 01:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's pathetic
2006-08-05 01:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by BoRiQuA_MaMi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋