he just asking me?when i am with my girl friend
2006-08-04 17:47:08 · 24 answers · asked by shaiknagoorshareef 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
he is 12 years old can i tell him
2006-08-04 17:52:56 · update #1
parents should decide how and when sex is explained to their children. What if you don't know as much about the issue as you thought you did?
2006-08-04 17:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by STEPHEEDEE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should really depend on how old this kid is. How old are YOU? If you're doing something that he's seeing that's making ask what sex is, don't you suppose you should be doing it in private?
You should consult his parents and ask them to speak to him. Sex is a normal natural part of life, but too young and they'll just end up getting all weirded out.
2006-08-04 17:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell his mom or pop that he's asking those kind of questions. Really, it's up to them to help him along. There may be problems (and possibly even less desirable consequences) if you take it upon yourself to educate him in these kinds of things.
I'm an uncle with a decent relationship with my nephew - and I wouldn't hesitate to let my nephew's daddy know that the boy has questions.
2006-08-04 17:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by Bael 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on his age. If he's older than 13 or 14, than sure but don't go into too much detail, and if he's younger than that, tell him to ask his dad or something. It's really a judgement decision though, if you think you should tell him, then go for it...if you're skeptical and think you should wait before telling him, or letting him find out on his own...then do that. I hope whatever choice you make is the right one.
2006-08-04 17:52:23 · answer #4 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with you ? It's not your job to inform your nephew about sex, it's his parents. You should also consider finishing school because you sound like an idiot.
Talk to your nephew about school and how important it is. Tell him that without it, he may turn out to be like his uncle, an idiot.
2006-08-04 17:53:11 · answer #5 · answered by Swift Ninja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him when the time comes.... he will find out by himself... and that is how it goes (for some reason lol). If he keeps asking tell him its a result of love and no further comment.
2006-08-04 17:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by I need Answers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him to his parents, it's their place to tell him when they feel he needs to know. i would tip off the parents to give them a heads up that he's asking, so they can prepare for the appropriate answers.
you didn't state how old he is, so i'm assuming he's very young.
2006-08-04 17:53:13 · answer #7 · answered by str8tupgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depend son his age..
maybe you should go to his mother and have her explain it and no freaky stuff in front of the kid! right now he may be going through that curious stage..refer him to his mom or you talk to his mom and get permission first.
2006-08-04 17:52:26 · answer #8 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest you get help for that issue, since it's a very delicate matter for everybody. I think it could be good to teach him, but with responsability, before he learns the wrong way through pornography.
2006-08-04 17:51:54 · answer #9 · answered by HiddenSoul 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask his parents if that's cool first. They're the ones who are going to have to deal with it later.
2006-08-04 17:50:32 · answer #10 · answered by Phil 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋