There is this guy who i really really like but he flirts with other girls and we just wouldn't work out...how do i get myself to get over him when he always tells me that he still likes me?
2006-08-04 17:45:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing you can do do make it better except to let it flow through you. Find understanding in solitude for awhile. Cry if you have to. It's okay to cry for someone. It's better than getting angry because that person isn't who you wanted him/her to be. If you cry for him you know you love him. If you are angry at him then you are just mad for not getting what you want. If you let it flow through you then you can grow from the emotion and you will be more ready when love does come knocking.
2006-08-04 18:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he likes you, that's great, but it's not a proposal of marriage, i it?
So you look to him as a friend, not a boyfriend. Don't spend your precious hours on a wasted project.
Spend your time, better, by finding someone who is right for you.
I like plenty of people, girls and men, but I'm not into dating them all.
Thats a good thing, I don't think I have the time and energy to handle them all, lol.
You just need to channel your love into a more productive way of life. Time will take care of that, love needs to be nurtured or it fades away, and with that guy, it's not being returned.
2006-08-05 00:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt and date guys. Play the field and increase your yield. I am not talking about sleeping with them, just date and flirt with the other guys. In no time you will forget about this particular guy you are obsessing over. If he really wanted you, he will ask only you out.
2006-08-05 00:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey check it out, i got ur same problem, i asked her out at the end of the skool year, but she turned me down cuz we're goin to different skools now, but she said she would go out w/ me if I asked her earlier, now we like eachother, but neither of us think it would work out. My advice, tell him how u feel, tell him everything, don't stop trying for him, if you play things right, he'll want u and only u. So don't quit. oh yeah and don't act desperate for him, tell alot of people that you like him, they could help set you up. good luck!
2006-08-05 01:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by Sgt. Malarky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
self-esteem training
2006-08-05 00:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks, y cant u be w/ them?
2006-08-05 00:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by mrsskellington1031 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋