we were talking as I was helping her get a piece of glass out of her foot, from walking in K-Mart barefoot. She finally admitted that our 5 children are from other fathers, and that's why they all appear to be different nationalities from each other and from myself. They appear to be a spectrum of Mongolian to Swedish. She apologized for it. How can we get past this?
2006-08-04 17:39:26 · 8 answers · asked by Nep 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This cannot be a serious question and if it is u just joined the ranks of guest on many fine game shows suck as Jerry springer and Maury. Look idiot if she walks to any store barefoot especially if there is the possibility of stepping in glass then u should run the other way. But if that didn't clue you in maybe the fact that the kids all looked different. I have a suggestion tho.. go back to school get ur GED and tell ur nasty woman to get sum shoes and a dignity.
2006-08-04 17:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by straight clownin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, if you loved all of them unconditionally before the incident. Then what has changed, knowledge is a good thing generally, but stupid pride, well that's something different. One thing I have learned, and I have 2 step children, I have been around for almost 10 years now, and this doesn't include my 2 kids, I can't love one more than the other, I have my favorites, I am only Human, but each has their own place in my heart, and tow aren't even my own blood. Does this help?
2006-08-05 00:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by thugtwin1@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really sure that you want to get past this? It's hard to forgive someone that has cheated at least 5 times and lied to you for years. Dump her and move on!
2006-08-05 00:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by Dana J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love and INTELLIGENCE will conquer all.
you get past it with love, understanding, forgiveness, TRUTHFULNESS, dignity, friendship, loyalty, respect, acceptance, joy, fun, laughter, and other good relationship tools.
how is it that you didn't know this before? are your children any less lovable now that you know this?
2006-08-05 00:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUh? was she cheating on you?? If you still love her then you'll get pass this. But will you still be able to trust her?? Have you tried going to couples counceling?
2006-08-05 00:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes hick love will conquer all.
2006-08-05 00:42:40 · answer #6 · answered by goldieluxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm, no offense..but that's very white trash.
she's a slut, leave her?
2006-08-05 00:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO...this story is sooo funny...
2006-08-05 00:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by bumblebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋