there is this girl at my school that i can never get my mind off of i feal so calm near her just to think of her makes me shiver she is not cute or hot just ok i asked her out and she turned me down i still cant get my mind off of her it has only been about 4 mouths scence she turned me down but like i said i just whant to be with her i dont know if i should keep trying or if i should stop trying or if i am just a crapy 14 year old that has a teen crush or if i am in love i ant talked to her for 1 week and i cant stand it help plez thank you
2006-08-04 17:27:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
look for those of you that said i need to move on i am trying harder than you think and this ant first crush
2006-08-04 17:40:33 · update #1
Sperm on her
2006-08-04 17:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to be nice and friendly to her, helpful when you can be, complimentary when she deserves it. Then be patient. I know it's hard, but you just have to wait and see if it turns into something more than friendship. Don't be too pushy or she'll think you're stalking her or you'll scare her off. Just be yourself and be a good friend and wait and see what happens. If she doesn't respond, eventually your own feelings will get less strong, and it won't be so hard to deal with.
2006-08-05 00:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by telaine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay hers what you need to do...try not to notice her and try to be yourself no matter what. Girls often like guys who are funny, cute, and is caring. if she is walking by you and yall are heading to the same door then let her go in first (girls like that). If she still hasnt noticed you or anything then try passing her a note or something asking her if she likes you or asking her a simple question? dont worry I'm sure it'll all work out
2006-08-05 00:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by Donna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u must be in love with her, and looks arent everything. Just try being friends with her, respect her. And youll grow closer. And when you do, u have better chances. Try again later when u 2 know eachother better. Good luck and take it easy. :)
2006-08-05 00:32:35 · answer #4 · answered by The Ren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best you can do is be her friend. But don't get too close to her. She might start thinking of you as her brother! Then, she can use the excuse "You're like my brother! We can't be together!" But keep flirting with her.
2006-08-05 00:33:00 · answer #5 · answered by lipz0613 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are experienceing a normal typical everyday crush. and you are not crappy. It is called puppy love. it is real, but you are too young to act on it. you will always remember her, but will find another girl when you are older that you will be crazy about. it don't seem like it will happen now, but it will.
2006-08-05 00:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, all girls that's worth havig needs you to chase her! I mean that you should be her friend and get to know her and let her know the true and decent you too! So best of luck!
2006-08-05 00:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by aries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright i would say its love i mean bc yeah love is everything to me and i can kinda tell r in my book i can tell when i am in love! so yeah i would keep tryin with her tell her how u feel about her! dont be mean r anything just try everything u can to make her see how u feel
2006-08-05 00:33:40 · answer #8 · answered by tylers baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUND LIKE YOU JUST NEED TO MOVE ON, AND FIND
SOMEONE ELSE THAT WILL MAKE YOU FEEL THE WAY
YOU FEEL, IT NORMAL, BUT STOP TORTURE YOURSELF
IT BEEN 4 MONTHS, AND YOU COULD BE HAVING FUN WITH
SOMEONE ELSE WHILE YOU PINING OVER THIS GIRL.
2006-08-05 00:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be casual with her..and talk to her...girls like to be talked to..be her best friend...and you will be surprised how well you get along...and she will go out with you...maybe she was a little shy at first...or maybe her parents don't allow dating yet...don't give up.
2006-08-05 00:32:36 · answer #10 · answered by intelligentbooklady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on life is to short to waist your teen years on one girl
2006-08-05 00:35:04 · answer #11 · answered by mydesella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋