Okay, I was in love with this guy, but he dumped me for this 7th grader. We're going into 8th grade and when he broke up with me he said we could still be friends, which ended up being a lie. We never really talked again. Anyway, I'm 13 and I want something for revenge, but where he'll not figure out it's me. But I want something big... muhahahaha.
And just for you people that are anti-revenge, get over it. Okay, look, I know you've been hurt before and wanted to get back at them and just because you didn't have the guts to do it, doesn't mean I can't.
2006-08-04 17:26:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks everyone who answered, and for you all that think I'm just some kid, think twice. What were you doing when you were 13? Probaly screwing someone that didn't even love you. You were both just too desperate!
2006-08-04 17:43:54 · update #1
Hunny, this tips will help you to be strong along the path of life. Always keep your goodness and never lose your love. for then you'll be rewarded with success in ways you never dreamed of. If I could give you the best gifts of all, they would be the everlasting kind. (Revenge is not the answer). I know betrayal hurts loads, it's kind of scary looking ahead and not knowing what to do next, but no matter what life holds for you; you will always have your family and people that loves you. No one ever really knows what life has in store, what roads they will travel, or how things will turn out. (Revenge is not the answer). Let your life be an exploration, let people and places be a part of your life and experience each and every unique situation with a sence of wonder and delight. Look in all directions to seek out the answers you long to know, and discover the secrets that keep questioning your heart. Be willing to make changes and be ready to face the chanllenges. Accept the opportunities that present themselves, and endure and cope with the difficulties that can arise from time to time. Remember that there is no one way to live your life, but a thousand different ways for each of us to be. Make your life the way YOU want it to be and create a lifestyle that brings you happiness. AGAIN ( Revenge is not the answer ) Search for your true meaning in life by devoting your self to your ideals, and enjoy your wonderful adventure through time by making every day SPECIAL. Just remember that there's no other way to grow. You have to experience the good with the bad for your self. There is no race to win and nothing to be proven. Never doubt your worth. Let it go and start new.
Good luck!!!
2006-08-04 18:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by TRANSLOPEDIA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, stop acting so childish. I know that's a tall order for a 13 year old girl such as yourself, but you need to (as you say) "get over it." At your age, heartbreak can be very common. But the longest odds in the world are those against getting even. If you get revenge on this guy (who does not seem to have done anything wrong; it's not his fault he does not like you anymore), you will make yourself look very bad. You may get a reputation as a psycho b|tch, which might not be far from the truth if you actually do go after this guy. If you stay on this track, I suspect you will grow up to be a full-fledged man-hater and no one will want to go out with you. All you have to do is let these things go, and you will be alright. Trust me. Good luck with managing your anger!
2006-08-04 17:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all this is way to much drama for a 13 year old. This is like nothing compared to what you will be going through in the future. Why such a big deal over peanuts like the little boy who broke up with you. Oh I understand revenge.
The best revenge at any age...is for you to be HAPPY.
Anything else will make you look like a fool and you will be giving him WAY too much Power.
Do you have the gutts to be happy?
Who the Hello is going to want to be with a girl who controls guys with childish or violent revenge.
Remember the best revenge in life is for you to be happy.
2006-08-04 17:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not an impatient man or woman yet am desirous to pay attention something.. for it is obtrusive that there is extra to be printed.. as such i will withhold my opinion.. for the way can everyone critique unfinished challenge? I definitely have just to declare that i got here upon it very hard hitting precise from "Granddad grew to become into" and that i've got a feeling i understand the place this is going because of fact i'm probable examining too plenty "between" the strains.. (-: nicely written (((Bri))) I shall watch for something happilly with baited breath. playstation .. i commend your respond to the responses you have had. it is a real guy that could save a civil tongue in his head while all approximately you're dropping theirs (-:
2016-11-03 22:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can tell you young lady that I did the very same thing. I wanted that person to hurt for hurting me and i ended up waisting a lot of time trying to do it. And the funny thing is, when I didn't care anymore is when they were begging me for attention. The best thing you can do is not care. Don't go out of your way to show that you don't care because that will only give him attention that he is probably looking for. just don't care and act like you have never met him and he will be begging for your attention again. thats when you get your revenge.
2006-08-04 17:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by Calvin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll let you print out a picter of me and you can tell him I'm your new boyfriend. Then I could write to you in mail or email and somehow let him find out I wrote a love letter to you. Then he'll get really jealous. And by the way I'm 16 years old. If you want to you can IM me sometimes.
2006-08-04 17:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by b-buddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to the girl and just say "I'm sorry to hear about _____ (his name) I can't belive you guys broke up already." and just walk away. It'll make her think all day, and she'll be real mad by the end of the day...
2006-08-04 17:33:00 · answer #7 · answered by Dana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EEK im running out of this site screaming and shaking my head.
Just let it go, act your age not your shoe size...
2006-08-04 17:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're 13, steal her Barbie or something for heaven's sake.
2006-08-04 17:31:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh please
2006-08-04 17:33:51 · answer #10 · answered by angel_64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋