It takes forever for me to achieve an orgasm and 9 of 10 times, i don't without me doing something to make it happen. My boyfriend and I can't figure out why or how to make it better. I have polycystic ovarian syndrome, could that be why? Any suggestions please!?
2006-08-04 17:01:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It takes forever for me to achieve an orgasm and 9 of 10 times, i don't without me doing something to make it happen. My boyfriend and I can't figure out why or how to make it better. We've gone up to 45 minutes, and i've made his arm, hand, and tongue go numb thus far.I have polycystic ovarian syndrome, could that be why? Any suggestions please!?
2006-08-04 17:09:26 · update #1
Are you experiencing pain if so that could be the case? Were you able to orgasm more quickly at another time in your life? Its just a given that some women simply take more time to orgasm . Sounds like you are doing the right things by playing and practicing to see what works the best. 'Its really about letting your body and self go and not holding back. Also be sure not to get to caught up in the self talk we do when we are trying to orgasm...we totally psych ourseleves out!
2006-08-04 17:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by my1215boo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you just having basic vanilla sex? Most women do not reach orgasm with sexual intercourse. Most women reach orgasm by clitoral stimulation, either manual, oral-genital contact or a vibrator. You guys may already be going this, but I thought I would share. My partner and I wouldn't get near the big O without clitoral stimulation during foreplay.
Something else to consider... If you are worrying to much about the O it can acutally make it more difficult. Try to relax and enjoy the touching, intimacy, and closeness as much as possible. It sounds like you are in a healthy relationship with someone who cares about your sexual needs, so good luck!
2006-08-04 17:19:23 · answer #2 · answered by lnfinitelylnteresting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, I suppose any medical condition might affect it in that way. But it sounds like you and bf have made that the challenge. Maybe he should use some foreplay and technique before insertion.
2006-08-04 17:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are plenty of answers at the amazingsaddles website
read the Orgasmatron article on the feelgood page.
2006-08-04 17:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur not alone... i know its not fair.. its a lot easier 4 men... u should be worth the work 2 ur boyfriend though. if he starts bitchin about it to much then that just aint right!!!!
2006-08-04 17:12:12 · answer #5 · answered by ♫♪♥PUSSaY FART♫♪♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can take up to 20min for a woman to orgasm so i wouldn't be worried
2006-08-04 17:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋