What do you think about a divorcee?

Question

I am nearly to divorce..but so confuse.
"Should" or "Should not"...
Please share...

Answer 1

Divorcee is a person who got rid of his/her spouse.
The reason to take a divorce are plenty. What is your reason to leave your spouse?
Then, when you become divorcee, you can again marry another person, because you become single again with the lable - Eligible for second marriage.
Do you know how many times the Mrs. Elizabeth Tailor, the famous Hollywood Actress dirvorced her husbands and remarried many men? Adventurous lady in this world - How is that?

Answer 2

This is not an easy question to answer. If you are thinking about it you must have some serious problems going on. You should see a counselor and get some one on one, face to face advice. I was advised to get a divorce from one of my friends and I trusted her. I thought she was looking at my situation from a realistic point of view. She was and everything has worked out the way it should have done. But looking back on it I was pushed into making steps towards the divorce before my mind was really ready.My heart never was and I am still getting over it many years later. In the end only you must make the final decision when you are ready. If you have any doubts then write down the reasons why you should go through with it or the reasons why you should stick with it. They say "there are plenty more fish in the sea". But they also say "better the devil you know than the one you don't".
Good luck in whatever choice you make.

Answer 3

People change over time so what was true when you married may not be true now. Take a good look at your life being married and examinee the changes. It some times is much better to leave the marriage than to stay where life can be very bad for you. On the other hand if you do examin your marriage and find that you can change some and make it better then it may be best to keep the marriage. Only you and yours can answer the question to get a divorce or not. Do what is best for you.

Answer 4

Society in America does not look down on divorced people. The only issue you are facing is your own uncertainty about getting a divorce. Without knowing any facts about the marriage, it is impossible to say much at all.
Do you have any children by this man? Why do you want to divorce him? Does he want a divorce, too? Have you gone with your husband to counseling? Do BOTH of you want to work out your differences? Are you in love with him, and is he in love with you?
I think you really need to see a marriage counselor WITH your husband before you decide anything. Divorce is not the answer for every unhappy couple; if you are not sure, you better find out what you can do to preserve your marriage.

Answer 5

Here are my personal feelings, people are always looking for an easy way out. Things go a little sour, instead of sitting down and talking about things, they let things get worse and then they want a divorce.

I believe that the only time someone should get a divorce is if there is abuse involved or the spouse is cheating, other than that, I think that you two should learn to sit and talk things out like adults and maybe even seek counseling

Divorces are tragic, heartbreaking, time consuming and costly.

Mine was well worth it, I was tired of being called names and getting slapped. I was married and divorced within 7 months.

Answer 6

I think divorce depends on the situation. If there is abuse of any kind then get out fast. If its over money or something like that I would try every thing possible to make it work. You loved that person for some reason when you got married. Just try to find that again. If you can't then divorce but on good terms. Nasty divorce doesn't do anything but cause harm to everyone involved.

Answer 7

Well I have thought about divorce twice and I have been married for 5 years and both time I didnt know if it was the right decision. I of course have not divorce cause it passed. The reasons where because of money and he didnt give me enough of attention. I know it sounds petty but the situation wasnt as easy as it sounds. The bible says only if your spouse has passed or if they have committed adultry. Now he didnt any of that so I was thinking it wasnt right to divorce. The point is....only you know if your not happy or if it is the right decision for you. No one knows your situation. You are the only one that knows. If you are fighting non stop and the kids are hearing this then maybe it is the right decision. It really hurt children that dont understand. That is when I realized that if I wasnt gonna leave I needed to make it right for my children sake. They didnt deserve any of that.

Answer 8

Divorce is a formal term for breakup with paperwork done.

If you both aren't happy and cant move on in this relationship, i dont see the point of staying together. Remember love is not abt being with someone you can live with, but someone u cant live without..

Every end to a relationship is heart wrenching and depressing. I hope things work out for u n be happy again. :)

Answer 9

if you don't see a happy future with this person, the reason does not matter. You only have one life to live and you owe it to yourself to be happy. By divorcing you allow both you and your partner to find someone who is a better match. That said, no one is perfect, so if you do think that you can make it work, try some counseling. There is no shame in it and it can help. But you both have to want it to work.

Answer 10

I was divorced in 1995 and never once have I reffered to myself as a divorcee.

Ask yourself one question.
can I stay with this person for the rest of my life without regretting it.

Dont get to 65 and wish to start your life over again!

You may go through a long period of unhappiness if you divorce.
But one day you will be happy again and free to choose or not.