My g/f broke up with me about three weeks ago...Just today she sent me this...What should I do?

Question

Here is exactly what she said:

"i'll always love you as a person and you are good enough for me or anyone else... dont ever forget that..."

Now this comes as a response to an email in which I told her I obviously wasn't good enough for her. She had said some things that kinda pissed me off before.

Based upon what she said, what do you think the chances of our getting back together? If it is good, which I don't think it is, how should I broach the subject?

Thanks for all your help!

Answer 1

Dont try to get back with her. If she didn't realize how great you were before why would you want now? find a new love someone who is great and thinks you are too.

Answer 2

It's a little hard to answer this question since I don't know the reason why you guys broke up. but if she say that you are a nice person and that you are good enough for her I think that you should think about it cause maybe she consider you alot. I you don't have to be worried about how you should start the conversation just relaxed and start asking her the reason why she broke with you after talking you should take some day to think about all that she said and take a decision.
I hope that everything goes well for you. Take care and have a good day.

Answer 3

This part right here "I'll always love you as a person" is the GIANT indicator that she doesn't want a relationship with you anymore. Do not pursue it. She sent the email response to let you know she doesn't dislike you. However, if you continue to try getting her back, her responses will change and perhaps become very ugly. Please don't become a stalker. She obviously still holds you in high regard, cherish that for what it is and move on.

Answer 4

Ease on down the road. Don't look back. Surely you have better things to do with your time than let this chicky still control your life even after she broke up with you. It's a power play. Ignore the emails, let the machine pick up when she calls, go have a beer with you buddies and she who's shaking things up somewhere else.

Answer 5

read betwenn the lines here she will alwaqys love ya as a person, okay do you know if she has moved on in her life seeing anyone else here involvdd with god knows what?? have you aproachedd her sat downe with her and tryed too find out if therre is somebody else?? i would do this before breaklking her up with somebody else here i suspect the broasd is using you, and trying too make a come back here, but sit her downe, and ask her questions before you drag her back, she has already stated dont ever forget that, meaning, she will never forget you read betwenn the lines its over with i think she has movedd on really and no its not good i suspect somebody else is with her

Answer 6

I think she's trying to tell you that you just aren't right for each other. She sounds like a good person; even though she's realized you aren't the right one for her, she knows you're a great guy and thinks a lot of you, and she doesn't want you to think you did something wrong or there's something wrong with you that it didn't work out. Sometimes it just doesn't, even when both people are the greatest people you'd ever want to meet and you'd think you'd be perfect for each other. It's just one of those things. I think it's time to move on. Best of luck to you.

Answer 7

It's over. This is just dust sweeping cleanup.

Accept that it's over. Mourn the loss of the relationship without her. Stop communicating with her. Go have fun every time you start obsessing over her. Go bike riding, running, watch the comedy channel. Make new friends.

You broke up for a reason. Move on.

Answer 8

Looks first she decided to leave u, then realised that u are worth keeping, may be not as a life partner but as a friend......
If u are still into her go slow and take time to rebuild that trust....
Her behaviour could be an outcome of some thing u dont even have a clue about...
talk talk and talk......be open......u will find answers to everyting.....be a lil patient....finally its a girl that u loved...

Answer 9

She hasn't actually said anything there that implies that she wants to get back together. I know it's difficult, but the best thing is probably to let it go. If she wants to come back she will. Maybe you'll find that she wasn't right for you anyway.

Answer 10

I personally think that she is just trying to comfort you because you sounded like you were sad and hurt and "not good enough for anybody".I wouldn't think she wants a realtionship so don't put anything into it.Sorry.Go on and find someone who loves you and wants to be with you.