i alwayz try to be the best girlfriend a boy could ever have and yet i still get my heart broken.can somebody tell me wats the problem?
2006-08-04 16:23:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the answer is simple all men are *** HOLES!!!! period.... or your falling for the wrong kind all the guys i have been with have hurt me.....so my theory is all men are assholes good luck and keep looking he is out there
2006-08-04 16:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by glowofacandle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is your lack of boundaries. You build a relationship gradually and become closer with someone as the trust and respect warrant.
You can't control someone or the outcome of a relationship by jumping in with both feet assuming that this will lead to success (since one of you is fully invested.) Don't invest more in a relationship that the other person it.
Also, if you're needy and are throwing yourself into the ring, they can pick up on this and realize you're in a weak position. They know that you won't stand up for yourself if they don't call because you're afraid to be by yourself and will tolerate anything just to have them back.
2006-08-04 23:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to tell you this, but lots of guys take advantage of girls.
I don't really know much about this type of thing. But just be yourself and eventually you will not get your heart broken. You'll find the right guy someday. Try not to let it make you too depressed cuz suffering from too much emotional pain can be bad for your health.Keep trying! I know you're doing your best!
2006-08-04 23:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by Crisco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only flaw you have is that you try too hard. Boys are a species that are sort of slow on recognizing a treasure and they only realize its worth after it is gone or after a thunderstorm at sea. Next time you get together with a guy be sure he appreciates you for who you are and not what you have to offer.
2006-08-04 23:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by Brown Nymph 07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say your picking thre wrong guys. It does not matter how good you are if your picking the bad guys. Look to see if your in a rut. Do you always pick the same type of guy...time after time? If that type of guy broke your heart once...chances are that type of guy will do it again.
You could always pick a good guy, then your chances of getting your heart broken are much lower.
2006-08-04 23:33:20 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok hun....first of all...YOU are beautiful inside and out. We need to protect our heart no matter what the cost. I would never give my all to someone except God. He loves me unconditionally like He loves you. When we loose sight of what's important to us and focus only to the person that we are with and when that person does something to hurt us we get disappointment, so giving our love to God more than to others and knowing who we are is very important. Trust in God and he will give you someone better. God Bless! Love you. Hugs and kisses.
2006-08-05 00:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by bond_babe_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you do that gets them to dump you? Seems your trying to hard to be the BEST.
2006-08-04 23:28:52 · answer #7 · answered by Silverstang 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple your trying to hard, u shouldn't do all you can he should be putting forth some effort too. it takes two to make it last not one.
2006-08-04 23:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by Eric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u just happen to end up with all the wrong guys..
2006-08-04 23:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by someone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋