2006-08-04 16:11:30 · 11 answers · asked by MaySol 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are dating the wrong kind of guys. Unlike the guys who have already answered, I dated lots of guys when I was a teen who treated me with respect, and paid for everything, and didn't expect anything in return except a good night kiss and another date. A lot of the young boys today just don't have the upbringing kids used to have. Many don't have a father in their home, and have never been taught how to treat a woman. Shivery never dies, and once the guys understand that...(and the hoes stop putting out at the drop of a hat), things will only get worse. It's really sad. Please keep respecting yourself! When you do find the right guy, you both will be glad you waited!
2006-08-04 16:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
because they are guys...it's a lame excuse but thats the way they are.
it is funny because just last night i found an old letter from a boyfriend when i was fourteen. iread it to my fiance and we cracked up!! (i am 28 now)
the thing is that i remember being totally heartbroken over it and now can barely even remember the situation and would not if it weren't for the letter.
anyway, it talked about how he loved but and wanted to marry me...but was confused on why i did not want to have sex with him.
(hilarious!!!)
he said he thought i was old enough (of course!!).
anyway, my point in sharing this lame letter with you is to tell you that we all deal with it. and he thought that he was so mature and i thought that of him at the time as well. but now looking back..obviously i htink differently.
he ended up breaking up with me because he could not convince me to "do the nasty" with him while i was 14.
so what!!! life goes on.
and you should be strong and firm with your decisions in this matter. don't let them push you around...maybe let them beg some because it is very comical and makes for great memories.
oh, by the way, the guy appartently has three kids with three different women that he does not take care of....
just be careful.
2006-08-04 23:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by deanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd better be 100% clear in advance that you are going out as friends, that you are paying your own way, etc.
Many people who like someone waste time hoping the object of their affection will change their mind. Not.
Guys always hope for sex, and frequently don't get it.
Set the clear expectation up front and tell him if he doesn't behave, you won't be his friend.
2006-08-04 23:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause men just want it... nothing to do with first date and second date
2006-08-04 23:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by bash 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because apparently you're dating perverts.
2006-08-04 23:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they expect that it's because they're looking for a booty call my friend.
2006-08-04 23:15:26 · answer #6 · answered by Diva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he paid for everything then its understood that there will be at least oral.
If you just going out as friends then you should pay your own way.
2006-08-04 23:15:38 · answer #7 · answered by rsist34 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men let the wrong head do all their thinking.
2006-08-04 23:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
guys are pervs. not all guys want sex
2006-08-04 23:19:01 · answer #9 · answered by dtstuff9 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
never give it up on the first date!!!!! or second!!!!!!
2006-08-04 23:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋