He discussed our relationship and he didn't give all the details, only his version of things, leaving out a lot of facts. I was in the process of moving to fl, and he picked the best answer, before I could respond with my own answer. I only read it a few hours ago.If people reading these questions aren't told the entire story it's easy to draw a conclusion about a person without knowing the other side. How would you respond or feel?
2006-08-04 15:49:05 · 9 answers · asked by nativeamericantay 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he is hurting, upset or angry.. or maybe all 3.. You do not have to defend yourself to anyone here on-line. I'm sure none of us know you or him so it really shouldn't matter... Just go on with your move... & Best of luck to you
2006-08-04 15:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by cinsaint1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I answer questions on this forum, I try not to be judgemental because we're not in a courtroom and I know I am only hearing one side to the story. But at the same time I also try to be sympathetic and understanding, cuz I know that's all the person wants, is just for someone to listen to him (or her). So if I were you, I'd try my best not to take it personally, it's not like we know who these people are, that's the whole point of being anonymous. But if it bothers you that much, have a talk with him and tell him how you feel(when you're both calm!)And feel free to post your side of the story on here so we will know what you're talking about!!
2006-08-12 22:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with him in person..I'm sorry he talked behind your back like that.. and if it bothers you regarding what was said..be the bigger person and talk to him about it!
And yes in these types of forums, there will be times we will only see one side of things.. because its only one person typing a Q. but you can always post your side..
or turn the other cheek.. because all that matters is if you know the truth..
good luck.
2006-08-05 16:31:40 · answer #3 · answered by staciesweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say " oh my GAWD !!! you are beautiful!! " dump him and move on.. He is taking love advise about his life from a computer full of strangers and not talking things out with you in person.You deserve someone mature who can talk out any problem or settle it like a man and be responsible.
2006-08-12 22:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by taterhead30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would feel kinda hurt but than i would try and understand what made him post his business on the internet in the first place. you have to understand that he's probably going through something and he's to egotistical to talk to you about it. or you haven't asked him about it. if that's the case you need to talk to him, see what's really going on inside of him. don't let this be your way of trying to communicate to him. one on one. that's what you two need. Good Luck!!!
2006-08-12 18:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put the link up to the question in ref, also after any question is resolved you may still add comments which will give you the chance to get your side out.
2006-08-06 03:56:52 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Spock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dificult Matter, MEN , MEN such is life.
They think that women don't have Brain. Why?
because we let them to do whatever they want to do with ours life even so, we longing for them.
please WAKE UP!
LOVE IS LOVE AND LIFE IS LIFE
LOVE for them
Our life is just that TAKE IT IS YOURS.
YOU HAVE YOUR RIGHT AND MAKE A RIGHT CHOICE FOR YOU FUTURE EVEN IF THEY WANT TO CONTINUE MANIPULATING YOU
Think First in you and later in you if he doesn't like you for this
left him and GOOD BYE!
Good Luck
2006-08-12 13:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Ninoska L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares, you're moving to Florida!
2006-08-12 21:37:17 · answer #8 · answered by smommeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it be and stop snopping online!
your significant other is just letting his frusturation go!
2006-08-12 20:47:55 · answer #9 · answered by happy go lucky tonight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋