my boyfriend and i were hangin out at my place all alone, we had been goin out for a year and im 18, he said he needed to go to the bathroom and came back naked, i didnt do it with him cuz i wasnt ready (im not a virgin though, i just havent done it with him yet), now our relationship is weird, what do i do
2006-08-04 15:28:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-04 16:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by netnew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was ready and you weren't, which is perfectly normal. Discuss with him how you felt at the time and hopefully you can work out the awkwardness.
There should always be a time for sex, but both people need to be ready and not just one.
2006-08-04 22:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by Michael_D_Miller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that is going to fix this is time. You have to remember that it not only was embarrasing for you but it was also embarrasing for him. If it has been a year I am sure that things will work out fine.
2006-08-04 22:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by vsecrets24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You kinda obligated to have sex. oral or otherwise. You can always break up with him. But really, if it's been longer than 2 months of dating. He wasn't in th ewrong to try. The next move is all yours.
2006-08-04 22:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by Mikey B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't 'just do it'. My god.
If you're not ready, tell him so. Honesty is a key part in relationships. If you're not comfortable with something, just don't do it. If you feel pressured, then don't do it. Simple enough.
2006-08-04 22:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by inner_bakura101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the same thing to him. If he is mad about it, maybe he will "embarrass" you back, and you will be even. If not, he wil be happy, and everything will be normal.
2006-08-04 22:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probly embarrased him to all hell.. i think you should have given him oral.. and you stayed almost a virgin that way...
2006-08-04 22:32:58 · answer #7 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and e-mail me!!
2006-08-05 14:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by curious rudy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make hime happy... give him a b*low jo*b or something he would like from you... something sexy...
2006-08-04 22:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him oral sex. Seriously.
2006-08-04 22:32:20 · answer #10 · answered by LessthanJoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋