i have a gf(madly in love) but do girls get bored with sweet& sensitive guys?

Question

i am serious.......can i guy be "too sweet".,my gf tells me NOT to always agree with her!!!....i do cause i love her....and i dont object/disagree.....

Answer 1

ummm yepppp.....

dont be a wimp...

stand by what you know, feel, like, you dont have to agree with her on every point to show you love her...

that is sooooooooooo soft...

toughen up a little and stop bein afraid of losing her.... or you will.

Answer 2

Short answer: YES.

You need to beware of the puppy syndrone: where you want to please her so much that all you want is to sit beside her and wag your tail.

You may be naturally sweet. You may be naturally giving. These are good things. But you are not a water well - if you are a real human being you don't just give. You should have your own wants and needs that you look after. If these are still active, your sweetness is always a bonus. If you are always giving to them, chicks sometimes lose you in the fog of all the giving and then get scared that you're not real.

So ... be sweet, but TAKE also ... good girls that like sweet guys REALLY like to be taken. Its great how much, how far, and how hard they'll let you drive once they know that you care and that you're sweetness is genuine. You really are in a good position. Take the controls and start driving cuz all chicks like to be "rode hard and put up wet."

Answer 3

Yes there is a "too sweet". I would love if my guy would just answer my questions sometimes, but if you ALWAYS agree with her, she doesn't know if you actually agree or if you are just saying that to keep her happy. She probably wants your opinion, not a YES man.

Girls usually want a man who understands that women are not like cave women & want to be pulled around by the hair all day. They want a best friend (wich means someone to chat with about anything).

You need to show you have a mind. You may disagree sometimes, but that is what humans do! By letting her know your opinions (in a nice way) can show confidence & that will make you sexy.

Answer 4

You must remember to have an opinion. Be a man and have an opinion when you have one. My wife and I think very similarly though, so often, rather than disagreeing, we discuss things deeply to get a hold on if and how we actually differ on an issue. I am sweet, sensitive and masculine myself.

Some women may become bored, but this isn't because of who you are, it is more about how they are. Really, most mature relationships slow down and get somewhat boring. There is a need to have a life apart from your partner, and for them to do the same.

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Answer 5

If we're talking simple respect....A girl would only get bored with a guy who is respectful of her if she were low on self-esteem and thought she didn't deserve respect. However, if you take it a step further and never disagree with her (even when you really do), then you're being a doormat and, yes, that's too sweet. It will be hard for her to respect you if you don't even stand up for your own beliefs and always defer to her just because you love her. That would get really annoying, so you should probably cut that out.

Good luck kiddo....sounds like you're a nice guy and that's great. Just don't take it TOO far. Women like a guy who is his own person, even if it means disagreeing with her sometimes.

Answer 6

Sweet is definitely a good thing. Just be sure that if push comes to shove that you would defend her. Yes, it's good to know that she can talk to you about her feelings. In the long run. However, YES we do sometimes get bored with boys. Yes. We do. Hard to believe. So, make your relationship exciting a little. Don't DISAGREE with her just to be disagreeing. That's dumb. Speak what you think is the truth. If you're too predictable. We get bored. And dump you. That's how it works.

Answer 7

They like sweet and sensitive up to a point, but they prefer their men to also have a backbone. When you legitimately disagree with her, let her know. She will have more respect for you that way. If you always agree with her and cater to her every need, she will see you as weak, and ,yes, she will lose interest and get bored in time.

Answer 8

no. but there is way more to having a successful relationship than being sweet. You two always need to try and communicate. If you feel something, let her know about it. You also need to take initiative in some things and have your input be an equal part of the decision making process...

Answer 9

Only agree if you agree. Otherwise use your sweetness to show her you have an opinion too. Being sweet is great, but add some spice. Pay attention to what turns her on. Then use it to surprise her. Variety in moderation is a very good thing.

Answer 10

you can be sweet and sensitive and still have your own opinion on things. you shouldnt just agree on something if you truely dont agree. dont be rude about it either though.

for instance if she says "oh i love these red curtains." you can say something like "THOSE REPULSIVE THINGS!?" lol. no, but seriously just be honest with her. let her know what you think.

also, women can get bored of your charm if you try to charm them using the same methods over and over.

if you bought her red flowers last times maybe buy her some white ones the next time. just change things up, and be creative with it too.

Answer 11

What girls want
tough guy- boyfriend okay husband no way
nice guy- husband okay boyfriend no way

The problem is age. At times the girls fall in love with the tough guy by the time they're ready to marry and get stuck with an abusive man. Also, some girls break up with the nice guy long before it's time for them to think of getting married. Time and adjust your character to your age and what you want. I'm happily married, so I like nice guys and love my nice husband. Good luck.