yea my bf is 16 but im turnin 14 in a month and he said its pissin him off that ppl keep sayin **** he said he would never break up with me for that reason im just scard when schools starts e will get rele mad and just dump me but i don't no is it wrong?
2006-08-04 15:20:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, at your age, I think that if he *does* break up with you, then you shouldn't stress about it too much. Besides, if a boy breaks up with you because of his friends, he's not worth your time.
2006-08-04 15:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by inner_bakura101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are waaaaaaaaaaaaaay too young to have a boyfriend. Look at it this way, and I pose this question to you.
What is the 'rush' to grow up and have relationships? Why not have many friends (both boys and girls) and have fun being a young person?
Now think about this - If you live to be 84 years of age... and you grow up and do grown up things NOW at age 14, that means you have "70" yes SEVENTY years to be grownup.
Life is too short. Sloooooooooow yourself way down and be a kid!
2006-08-04 22:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to be taken when you start high school? i mean come on like if he does break up with you just think theres 4 more grades of guys!!! but be carefull and if he does break up with you dont sweat it its all good because if he dumps you because ppl are talkin **** hes not worth it
2006-08-04 22:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by Dimond eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong at all. I'm 17 and my girlfriend is a little over 2 and a half years younger, and we know we're going to be together for the rest of our lives. It all depends on maturity.
2006-08-04 22:27:34 · answer #4 · answered by kea33w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know your boyfriend well enough to know if you can trust what he tells you and honestly if that would happen and he does break up with you - then he is not the person for you as you deserve someone that wouldn't care -
Good luck hope everything works out for the best @
2006-08-04 22:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by TME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, it is WEIRD that a 16 year old guy is interested in a 13 year old girl. Unless he is incredibly immature, you probably don't have much in common. Listen to your friends, he may just want to be with you because he thinks that you are naive enough to jump into the sack with him.
2006-08-04 22:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by honk2goose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is really love then he wont break up with you. he will get past what others are saying, and love u.
u r gonna b a freshman right and him a junior??? cuz that aint wrong at all (it would b wrong if the dude was 14 and girl was 16)
2006-08-04 22:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by laur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at your age, you shouldnt really be dating anyway, so dont stress so much over one guy, you have all of high school left to find many boyfriends, especialy if it was this easy for you to find an older guy at your age. People that talk about you guys really have no life, its not that big of a deal, so dont stress.
2006-08-04 22:34:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a freshman, hes a junior. All is good in the hood. No worries, people will be weird for mabe a month, then all will be well.
2006-08-04 22:24:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mikey B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont worry about it at all,, as long as you guys are happy who cares about what other ppl say maybe they are just jealous for some reason....... i say that cause the father is 13 years older than me we were happy......... that all that should matter with friends they shouldn't be judgemental
2006-08-04 22:37:53 · answer #10 · answered by angel_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋