depression help plz?

Question

I have great parents but my dad has changed a lot since I was little, but before that when my brother was born and he was like three or so my dad would do a lot of things to him like push him down the stairs on purpose and choke him on a wall, my dad used to be so nice to me, and now he's not the same as before. I'm 14 and I'm a girl, I'm getting really depressed, and I don't know what to do, none of my parent's notice only when my brother feels down they notice. I'm really hurt and sometimes my heart feels like it wants to explode, My aunt is taking my grandma and my cousin to go out for breakfast, and my moms going to pennsylvania, and my brother to a party, leaving me alone at home, I'm always left out. My dad went to california, and I feel alone, all the time, I tried talking to a friend and it doesn't help me and I don;t know what to do. I used to cut myself but I stopped, and it just hurts a lot I don't know what to do I feel so down all the time. My best friend betrayed me

and I don't know what to do, I don't trust ppl after my best friend betrayed me

Answer 1

Damn that breaks my heart. I use to go through that too. I ran away. There is always that option if things get to bad. What you described was abuse. You should consider staying with a relative. Unfortunately for me I sought help from a boyfriend that was only interested in undoing my pants. I became pregnant around 17. Not cool. So don't do that. Talk to a school counsellor. School starts soon. Talk to relatives. Make someone listen. That is all you can do. Stay as focused as you can and do not **** up like I did. Betrayal always hurts. One thing that has always helped me is writing about it. It will help you to keep a journal. Life is hard but you got to keep moving on. If that kind of abuse continues and gets worse make someone listen. Prayer helps too. Don't knock it. You may not get an immediate answer but it is a scientific fact even that prayer does work. Try that too and hope it all works out for you and your brother. You really aren't alone it just kind of feels like it alot of the time.

Answer 2

there seems to maybe be more to this story but I could be wrong.I don't think your best friend betrayed you she may not have wanted to get involved with the situation.cutting yourself is not the answer to anything and it is a good thing you stopped.you being alone for those few days or however long that is can be a good thing because you can just sit down and think about all the things that are going on around you and what can happen to make things better.my suggestion would be for you to try and talk to your parents about this and let them know how you feel

Answer 3

I wish I could give you a big hug and let you know that someone cares. It is so hard to be a teenager. I have 2 girls teenagers and they are my priority. If you were mine you would be that way too. It is sad you feel that way..There are help lines that you can call to get emergency counseling or someone to talk to and you should call one. Don't ever do anything to hurt yourself. You are too important and too worth it to do that. Maybe call your grandma and see if you can go to breakfast with her and your aunt and cousin...maybe or call another friend that won't betray you and talk to you or listen to you..I think you are too young to be home alone anyway if both parents are gone. Please smile and get feeling better. I really do feel for you I have been depressed in my life and alone and I do know how it feels....Here is a big hug from me to you sweetie....Call someone okay.....

Answer 4

hey wow, you sound so much like me its crazy! well has ur dad changed, like is he nicer to ur brother now? mine has changed a lot, after he quit drinking, hes so much nicer now. but he is manic depressive and the smallest thing sets him off. we just stay clear of him. and i felt like no one was listening to me, i felt like no one cared, i couldnt talk about it, i coulnt even understand it. there were other things behind my depression, but im better now. i do think about it occasionally, and i do in a way wonder what it would be like to just i dont know, go back to that, but i know that i never will. i think you just need to wait a little longer for something better to come by. get a journal, write down everything fortunate that happens to you and u'll be surprised that more good things happen than you think. if there is something small bothering you, write it down on paper, let EVERYTHING out, and then just rip it up, rip it up, shred it up, throw it out the window, flush it down the toilet, but get rid of it so u'll never read it again and it will make you feel better at least for the night. i used to cut too, and i thought that i stopped about a total of 5 times but i always went back to it lol. i thought i could just cause my own pain and then everything else wouldnt hurt so much, i thought i should punish myself. but that was so wrong, and im glad that you dont do that. alright, IM me or something if you want to lol, but if not, i wish you the best of luck.

Answer 5

Bless your heart. Is there a counselor or a teacher at school that you could talk to? Have you tried to talk to your mother aboutt how you feel. Is your dad still hurting your brother? You really need to talk to someone. Do you go to church? Can you talk to a priest or minister abou this.You probably need to talk to a counselor at school and maybe they can help and you need to go to see your doctor and get some meds. for your depression also.

Answer 6

I suggest going out and having fun. Go dancing in the middle of the street (not a busy street), sing in public. Do something stupid, and fun. Or you can meet or talking to someone you think feels the same away talk to them. And you help them you're helping yourself. And stay in groups of people, when your by yourself you think to much and it makes you even more depressed. You can email me at [e-mail].

Answer 7

First of all, you come from a abusive family. there is no surprise that you feel that way. I understand how you feel. I suggest you find a church to go to. Keep praying to God every day. There is so much human can do, only God will change hearts of humans.

May God bless you and your family.

Answer 8

You need to talk to your parents and force them to listen and if you wanna talk to someone you can contact me I'll help you out the best I can...I give good advice it happens to my friends alot

Answer 9

that really sucks a lot
do you ever express to anyone around you that youd like to be included in stuff that they do? maybe they think you are the one tha doesnt want them..
you can talk to me on messenger, i can relate to you a lot
my email ofcourse [e-mail]

Answer 10

You must talk to a counselor!!!! You really should be seeing someone if you have been cutting yourself!! Your dad has issues and probably your mom. Get help!!!!!!!!!!!!