I'm so tired of the dating scene. I'm starting to feel really down about the whole thing and I just feel like telling everyone who's supposedly interested in me to get lost.
Everytime I decide to give a guy a chance I end up getting hurt. I'm so fed up with guys who only think about sex. Even though I make it a point to tell guys that I'm conservative and that it won't happen..they don't seem to listen. They'll treat me like a princess for months if they have to, just to see if they can get me to give it up. When they see they're really not getting anywhere, they leave. I've had guys who wanted to marry me but they weren't right for me. I've been meeting all these jerks now and I'm scared of giving anyone a chance. I feel like the same thing will happen. There is this guy I like now but I'm afraid of giving him a chance and him leading me on like the others. Why does this keep happening when I clearly tell the guy that It's not happening? And no,I'm definetly not sending mixed signals
2006-08-04 15:14:04 · 7 answers · asked by OOlala! 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
most guys are idiots, most have to in some weird way need to fullfill a conquest to conquer. i no how you fel but you will never know if you dont try, it may seem like it , but not all men are dogs, it may seem like it. their is light at the end of the tunnel. but how long is it is the true question
2006-08-04 15:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by sonny 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, dating sucks. I'm married now and it's SO much better. I don't have any super profound advice to you, accept be careful, don't lower your standards for the looser guys, try to decide what you want in a husband - make a list - and if a guy you start dating doesn't qualify, drop him. This way actually makes it quite a bit easier. Like one thing on my list was I didn't want to marry a hunter. There was one guy who was very likeable and I went out with him a few times, but when I found out he loves hunting, I was like okay, just a friend! Which is awesome. The guy I'm married to now was qualified in everyway, and has lots of amazing qualities besides, perfectly compliments me, and has so much in common with me I never would have imagined that I could find someone so perfect... so, stick to your guns, and hold out for the right guy!!! Blessings!
2006-08-04 22:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my gosh, well ur in the religeous section, all i can tell u is that a true christian guy will see things like you do. Maybe do what im trying to do right now and just concentrate on yourself and ur personal buisness ... collect urself and strengthen ur beliefs ... just quit looking for awhile. Theres a whole lot of eligibles out there but when you run into the right one you will know it.
2006-08-04 22:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is eventually going to end society. Over-population will kill us all. What love?
2006-08-04 22:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hear ya. same thing happens to us guys, u know lol. it sucks, even christians will pressure me for sex! it's sad.and i hate it.
2006-08-04 22:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by Chris K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I admire ur guts 2 b different. Please keep it up!
2006-08-04 22:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by karaokecatlady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i am!!!
2006-08-04 22:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by Manda K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋