Me and my fiance was suppose to get married on Nov 11, but since I may be pregnant and don't have any insurance we are getting married the 22nd of this month so that his insurance will cover me 100%. Do you think there is anything wrong with that. My parents aren't that happy because they have already planned for the wedding on Nov 11. I am in alaska and the wedding was going to be in Kentucky.
2006-08-04 14:41:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You don't mention how pregnant you are, but here is some info that you would need to know. The minute you get married, you fill out the paperwork for his insurance to start coverage and they cannot file pre-existing on you. If you were to get married, then waited for 3 months to get put on his insurance they could file pre-existing against you and refuse to cover your pregnancy. All insurances have to follow this rule. Also, you could without telling anyone, elope. Then go ahead with your big wedding on the 11th of November. My husband and I eloped and 1 year later had the big church wedding that we invited all the family to. We let some people know and kept the information from a lot of others.
2006-08-04 15:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by mom of girls 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you "may be" pregnant? you either are or you aren't. This is 2006. Get a preg test.
What is it that you're asking, if it 's OK to be getting married twice? You get one wedding per marriage. It is not proper to have two ceremonies, one for legalities and one many months later for "show." Or, one real one and one fake re-enactment one. Lying to your guests about what they are witnessing (a fake wedding for your family's vanity) is very rude.
Have the ceremony on the 22nd and a belated reception on Nov. 11. Send out wedding announcements on the 22nd (they are sent immediately after the ceremony has taken place)-- get an etiquette book to find out how to word announcements properly.
Then get to planning your belated reception for Nov. 11th and send out those invitations.
2006-08-04 22:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by Etiquette Gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married officially the 22nd and have the wedding the 11th of November. It really don't matter when the marrage license is signed, if you want, you can even hold off on wearing the wedding ring.
2006-08-04 21:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I will say this you can always get on medicaid or medicare if you aren't married. Just let them know at the hospital that you are unwed and don't have insurance. I have heard alot of people do that. Even if you have insurance you still pay a grip, but since it is his child it will cover him and probably the birth. Good luck and congrats!
2006-08-04 21:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is nothing wrong with you being pregnant, as a matter of fact, the same thing happened to me, but in my case, nothing had been spent yet for the wedding, just a date had been set...parents will be parents, they will be mad, of course, but I am sure things will work out in the end, that things will get moved up with no problem. As for know, don't stress, and enjoy your pregnancy, it's not good to stress, you may cause yourself to have a miscarriage, worry about your parents later, when that baby comes, they will forget it all, TRUST ME!
2006-08-04 21:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by ShellBellzGee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at the end of the day you have to do what is best for you. IF you think getting married on the 22nd is the best option then do it. You must always remember no matter what you do there will always be someone who is unhappy with you. So just try to please yourself and take care of that baby.
2006-08-04 21:47:59 · answer #6 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a small wedding for just you and you're fiance.on the 22nd of this month to make it offical.and have the real big wedding on the 11th of November to keep mom and dad happy.
2006-08-05 06:19:55 · answer #7 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are wrong and you can always get married at the justice of the peace and still throw the wedding!
2006-08-04 21:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by angelpockets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No reason why you can't be married again on Nov 11. Go for it. God bless you both.
2006-08-04 21:47:16 · answer #9 · answered by Dennis Fargo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not wrong at all you are thinking of your future just explain it to your paresnts and the wait isnt to far away!
2006-08-04 21:46:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋