i need somebody to talk to...someone to lend an ear! all my life, i have worried so much about my weight...my mom brought that on me...and i struggle with a bit of anorexia...i just need to lay some of my burdens down...by the way, i am 16
2006-08-04 14:39:50 · 11 answers · asked by i will be your friend! 2 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
i am a christian gurl...i read the bible daily, and i try to overcome all my eating habits..which is nothing at all!...i have been through major trauma in my life..like raped 2 times and melested 3 or 4 or maybe more...i am at wits end...i have tried counselling...but things were never kept confedential...so i decided i want to talk to a stranger who dont know my mom and wont spred more crap about me...
2006-08-04 17:03:25 · update #1
I'm sure your weight is just fine, and your mom was wrong for talking about your weight, she should support you. I'm sorry to hear you have struggled with anorexia too. In our society people are so concerned about their weight and people don't take the time to get to know the person. I wish you good luck, 16 is such a hard age but it does get better.
2006-08-04 14:46:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anna Z 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can legally volunteer yourself for inpatient care. It is a good idea, to do this. Your mom might not understand, but I would say that now is the time to go get elp, while you are a minor, and wont be held responsible for the bill.
There are good counselors there who can really help you deal with the problem, and attack it head on.
Call your local hospital for more information, they can really help.
2006-08-04 21:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Krista ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You DO NOT need to worry about your weight. You should NEVER listen to what other people say about your body! The only thing that is important is what you think and if you think you need a change then change it but chances are you DO NOT need to lose anymore weight if you are anorexic. START EATING and GET HELP if you need it! And always remember that Jesus can help you! He loves you!
2006-08-04 21:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by Sprinkle Spangles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play away from fast foods, fried foods and the pill!!Do daily exercises as walking. Be careful by ending with eating disorders!! Good luck
2006-08-04 21:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by Antoine a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple;
change you way of life,
exerciseevery other day & eat proper portions of food nobody puts the food in your mouth except you So get of the blame game & take charge of your life. Now quit your complaining & just DO IT!!!
2006-08-04 21:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by peterhlounsbury 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can't find someone online to talk to, consider talking to your school nurse or counselor - they will respect your privacy and be a good ear for you...they may even have some great resources and suggestions to help you get through this.
2006-08-04 21:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by kansas8099 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sis has that prob....i think.....seriously, u can e mail me at luvthegoddess2000@yahoo.com im more than willing to try to help you find help or just to lend an ear. i wish when i was your age i had somone to do that for me..i was depressed...because of my mom...so i totally understand.
2006-08-04 21:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by virgowiccangirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go to mcdonalds and get a value meal supersized
2006-08-04 21:42:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like the first answer. i msgd u in yahoo messenger also.
2006-08-04 21:47:56 · answer #9 · answered by kristen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with someone from your school or church
2006-08-04 21:43:48 · answer #10 · answered by robert899295 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋